I never questioned your masculinity. I questioned your characteristically male insecurities. One of them is the false notion that there is something wrong with crying.
Nothing wrong with crying. Nothing at all. I've been known to cry, but never because I haven't seen my pet for a period of time. If they die or something like that it's understandable, but be an adult. Fuck. Has nothing to do with being male or female. "Poor me. My doggy is at home and I'm here". It's a childish notion.
Maybe there are other things going on in my life? Anyway, I was sick at home for years and that dog was there every minute of the time, so don't assume he's not special to me. Its a childish notion not to think before you speak.
Special to you or not, he's not dead. The ability to see him is still yours. I've had one pet my whole life, and I refuse to get another pet because of how much he meant to me, but when I went on vacations and such I didn't cry because I couldn't take him with me. And to think before one speaks is a disgrace to ones innerself. If you're thinking about what you're going to say it's because you intend to stiffle any thoughts or ideas that are not generally acceptable and therefore denying yourself your freedom to express what you feel honestly and fully.
I'm not on vacation, I'm not living in the same damn house. I probably only see him once a month, if i'm lucky. And once i leave to travel the country i'll hardly ever see him, I never really thought about it before and just realised it, I hardly ever cry about it, i just cried the other day for the first time. You're a dick. Either you're consciously twisting your own beliefs in order to uphold the idea that you're right, or you don't have people skills. I've seen you get sensitive before. We're talking about people, not ideas, not beliefs, but people with feelings. I don't actually believe in real life you go round truly believing what you just said. Secondly, there are opinions and there are facts. When it comes to opinions, of course you should say whatever you believe is right, but get the facts right first dick. You think you know, but you don't.
You've resorted to name calling. Cute. I don't? You don't know me well. Not to say that I don't at times feel bad about the things I say, but I don't often choose not to say something I believe. We are not talking about people with feelings. We were talking about thinking before speaking. When most people speak, they speak on what they think or believe in relation to the current conversation or subject. People and their feelings were not brought up by you initially at all. I got the facts right. Your dog is not dead. That is the only fact that I stated in relation to you an this conversation. I was quite right in the fact that I stated as you have agreed to that already.
Hell no. I like my cat more than I've liked any dog ever. My cat was, hands down, the best friend I've ever had. When I got him I was on the verge of going nuts, and he kept me sane. Even still I didn't cry when I couldn't see him. I was depressed when I lost him for a few weeks, and I still miss him every day..... no crying though. And he hasn't even lost his fuckin' dog. Let up? He shouldn't have come at me the way did in the first place. I never fuckin' bothered him. Fuck him.
And to elaborate on this since it must be me conciously twisting my beliefs : One should not be thinking negative thoughts to begin with. If one is thinking negative thoughts then one should be honest and speak them. One should not be deceitful and hide their feelings or lie about them. If one does not have negative thoughts then there would never be a need to think before speaking anyway because nothing negative/hurtful/unkind would ever slip out.
Ok Confucious, I'm sorry that 3 months ago I had a good job, where they fired my manager and took away all my hours, then the same month i was evicted for no reason with a weeks notice and the landlord had spent my bond money, therefore leaving me broke and having to borrow from the government for a new home, the same week whilst moving house, crashing into a rich ladies car and having to offload more money i didn't have....and that was only the climax that concluded a year of shit. I never cried, i hardly complained, in fact most people hardly anyone in real life knew. I was probably happier than most people i know, and not for one second do i not realise there are people that get it infinitely worse than i do. All i fucking ask is that I be allowed to cry about something that is important to me without being subjected to the obssessive, self righteous ramblings of a contemptuous shrew. The other day I started on you because i knew how easy it would be and i didn't even have to say anything remotely true or personal about you.
i used to think the screenname warmhandedcanadian was referring to masturbation... i hope i'm not the only one...
fuck, I want my own little dog........ unfortunately I live in places that dont allow dogs...... and I still consider my parents dog, mine as well...... but he is 16 almost 17 years old :/
Fucken oath, Boog, I reckon you're a real grouse Sheila. There must be a couple a kangaroos loose in the top paddock.
uumm i once hacked my little brothers myspace page.. and changed it all to make him seem obsessed with koalas..:X