Was your SO the best sex you ever had?

Won't say yes nor will I say no.........
Let me splain..... Yes, some are better than others and of course I wouldn't be with someone long term unless she's top shelf. Each Lady has brought something different to the table, while one may be fantastic at one or more things she may not be as good where another excels.
I've never had a partner who was good at everything but have cum pretty damn close.........

 

Difficult to say. At 54, obviously I have had sex literally over a 1000 times, probably close to 1,700. So..yeah.
There are some very memorable ones, mostly when I was younger. But when I met my 2nd wife several years ago... we had some really - REALLY - good sex. Did some things I had never done before even. Probably a toss up between a few times with her, and one GF I had over 30 years ago who was extremely sexual, and taught me everything.

 

I have to say I was thinking more along the lines from the beginning of the sexual relationship. My wife was very vanilla in the beginning but after a few years she was extremely erotic in bed.
At about 20 I had a girlfriend with an incredible body, especially her ass. In a pair of Levi’s she was something to see. I complemented her about it a few times and about the second or third time we had sex she turned her ass to me reverse cowgirl asking me how I liked the view. That memory has stuck with me a long time.

 

My reply:
Funny, but also true. All that talent must come from experience, and some of that can contribute to some serious insanity later on. Everything, no matter how awesome, has it's own downside, and nothing lasts forever. Or so it seems. I miss those wild, uninhibited times.

 

My wife and I were pretty well matched when it came to our sex drive. 3/ 4 times a week was normal. Sometimes more, sometimes less. But it was a very active sex life , till she got sick. There is no question in my mind that she was by far the best.

 

No one person has been the best. Different partners, male and female, were the best at different things. The best one single tryst was with my best friend’s ex wife. The most compatible was my 2nd wife, the most adventurous was her sister - after my wife died. The sister was also the the best for receiving anal. The best blow jobs were from men, as well as the best for giving anal (real is always better than dildos). My first wife was the worst, She had me thinking I was bad at sex until we realized I was just the wrong sex. My current wife (#4 for those counting) is not the best at anything sexually. She is, however, the best wife.

 

Being bi, I have two answers. My gf, who I've been living with for the last four months, is the best sex I've ever had with another woman.
About a year ago, I was going out with a guy for about a month. We realized we were not meant for each other, but it wasn't because of sex. He had a great body which I enjoyed alot in that month. .

 

There is always someone better than someone, always.
Its not all about the sex, its being content with everything else combined.
I'd rather have a great social connection with him than have an absolute Sex God kind of thing.
I've been with some proper amazing men in the bed department, but soon after you get to know them better you just drift apart as there's not really any/much social spark there.

 

God I hope you are right. But what are the chances I will find him?

 

Well you'll never know unless you put yourself about

 

I am not her best there are many better, she has told me that. And she is far from the best I ever had. But the relationship is the best I ever had. Sex is wide open and that makes her the best for me.

 

My ex wife was my first and so far only, so for right now the best sex I've ever had came from her.

 

Fuck no BUT it is the best mind sex. This probably makes no sense but you need to experience it. When we are in a sex act she will tell me it reminds her of a certain guy or girl and the same with me. One example is when she is really into a blow job I mean sucking like there is no tomorrow, I tell her OMG a Lucy blow job thank you. Her name is not Lucy

 

It is not easy for me to answer because there have not been many SOs in my life.
So I can't make a comparison thinking about "normal" relationships. On the other hand I have had sex with many women in the past when I was younger, but they were escorts.
With some of them I had very good sex. But it wasn't within a relationship.
Thinking of my few relationships, far fewer than the fingers of one hand, I remember that with one of my exes sex was the minimum wage.
I didn't think she liked doing it. She always made excuses. It was as if it were a duty, as if it were to be the reward for something else. She liked to receive pleasure, those rare times when she sought it, but she did not seek understanding with her partner and complicity. With another, everything was ok, but it didn't last long.
With my actual girlfriend it's different. When we met, we immediately liked each other and we discovered an emotional connection. When we made sex the first time, we have found that there is a strong chemistry between us physically too. Sex with her is playful and fun. With her, I feel free to express myself sexually and, having a stable relationship, allows me to let go like I could not before. Also, when I first saw her, I had fantasies about her because of her particular phisical diversity. I only confessed this to her when we were already together and we already had sex, because at first, I didn't know if she would like it.
I think that the best sex is with my SO because we both enjoy doing it and because, with her, I can fulfill my fantasy each time we are together and make love.

I believe that not all couples place equal importance on sex. For some it is just an ingredient, but not the main one and not even at the top.
If however, for at least one sex is very important and for another it is not, then one of the two will be unhappy and will feel the need to find what he/she wants elsewhere.

 

No!
She was a virgin, it didn’t matter but she became good except I was not feeling fulfilled with her. A lot of it atShe was a virgin, it didn’t matter but she became good except I was not feeling fulfilled with her. A lot of it had to do with the mental. Her bullshit really killed things and when her best started coming out I no longer desired her.

my very very best wise friend with benefits who placed an ad on craigslist years ago. The partner she was describing for herself matched me perfectly in all aspects and my reply to her Was convincing enough for her to come visit me two days later. Like they say, the rest is history. And what a history it was!

 

are you living with her? still see her?? don't leave us hanging amigo.

 

Unfortunately it’s over since few years ago. I had to move for my job and I was not going to even think about uprooting her. She doesn’t want to live in a small town, she has her family where she is, and having teenage kids. We ended up on a very good note so it was bitter sweet

 

The best and the worst. I lost my virginity to her on our wedding night 5 years ago. I always wanted to wait for marriage and have sex with one person my whole life and it's everything I imagined it would be.

 

And it will keep getting better
And well done!

 

Now see Panama, your point is well taken. If I was divorced I would be looking for a freak, not so hung up on having a wife that hasn’t been around. Although being around dose t make you a good lay.

 

Im going to say yes. He's like the 2nd guy I actually crave in my life ever and the sex is always great.