Weird Situation, advice anyone?

We all have problems, and she isn't your responsibility. However, if you feel the need to help her in some way, then do so.

Also, I just want to say......I respect the hell out of you for how deeply you feel obligated to help this girl. It says a lot about your character

 

i totally understand this CC.

the same situation happened to me with a girl (not slutty though) who was freaking out and having a bad trip on 3 hits of acid... she was crying her eyes out and thought she was losing her mind and she was just pouring her heart out to me for hours desperate for some help..

the crazy thing was that i was on 5 hits and trying to keep my shit together and remain in reality so i could be there for her and get her out of it.. it got kind of difficult, but i managed to talk her down and laid on the couch with her for hours and talked to her until we were both done tripping enough to fall asleep together..

in the morning i took her to breakfast, and realized that because of the intensity of that night, and the deep conversations we had for hours on end that i really felt attached to her.. i dated her for a month or a little longer after that night, but it didnt work out..

but like i said.. i can relate to that man (i didnt have a gf at the time though, so i guess that makes it quite a bit less complicated). but like everybody else said.. just dont act on it if you've got a girlfriend that you really care about..

i believe she may really be trying to get her life straight and stop her slutty ways.. i actually doubt shes playing mind games and just wants to fuck you.. because she put her heart on her sleeve for you while desperate for help amidst the mental anguish of a bad trip.. that kind of stuff is really powerful, and when people go through an experience like that on psychedelics.. they tend to do a lot of thinking about the way they have been living, and its very possible it made her genuinely want to change..

anyways good luck man, dont do anything stupid and keep us posted

 

ah fuck.. 5 pages... well here we go... take it or leave it..

Seriously.. you have a gf.. so no.. stay away.. ever listen to Too $hort? you can't turn a ho into a house wife.. period.. let your friends do what they want to her.. you shouldn't cock block your bros because they wanna get an easy piece of ass.. if shes willing to give it up.. thats her fault.. you cannot stop it.. and you'd be a dick to try and interfere in such matters..

 

I hope none of that was serious lol.

 

dead serious.. but then again.. i only read the first page.. so i dunno what other details you went into..

 

I would usually agree, wholeheartedly, but he has gotten to know this girl and has seen a side of her that nobody else seems to have seen.

He needs to take into consideration WHY she is, or used to be, a slut. It could be because she is lonely or it could be because she is naive. Even if he doesn't fuck her, perhaps he can show her that she doesn't have to do those things to make guys like her.

 

it could be because she likes the cock

 

That's what I'm doing. I don't know why I feel this way but now that I know that she's a good person I can't let people do this to her.

Think about it like this. If your sister had a problem and guys kept taking advantage of her what would you do? That's right, you'd try and help her, not just let guys fuck her.

I know she isn't my sister but this world would be a much better place if everyone treated everyone like they're own family.

I'm just in an extra hard situation because it's my own best friend who's trying to fuck her. If he does this to her I don't know what I'll do.

I can feel the fuckin' rage flowing through me right now, because I know he's gonna do this to her. He's gonna fuckin' pressure her somehow and then do it. And I'll probably go right off the deep end if he does.

I will honestly lose all faith in him and the rest of the people I hang out with for letting this happen.

 

and i totally understand that CC has come to know this girl.. seen different sides.. every coin has two sides.. remember that.. maybe you are seeing a different side of her because she knows you're with someone.. so she can't play the "oh fuck me" slut girl around you..

still.. if your buddy and her fuck.. then it is what it is.. you really have no right to say "dude.. you can't fuck her" what gives you the right? because you either think or believe that she no longer wants to be a slut?..

plus "slut" is all in the eye of the beholder.. so people just love sex.. plain and simple.. call me a slut.. but i love putting my dick in some nice warm wet pussy... i have a gf.. so now its just that warm wet tight pussy.. which i cannot get enough of.. but when i was single.. i'd fuck different girls weekly...

 

I think the fact that she knows you have a gf and is still trying to get with you is fucked up.Not only that, but she'd be willing to fuck up your relationship with your own friend to get with you.Clearly she's only hanging out with him so she can see you on the reg.That says a lot. So fuck her (not literally) and keep your girl, if you do love her as much as you say

 

Perhaps, but according to Ian, she says she doesn't want to be like that anymore. Plus, she's only 15, and we all know how naive teenage girls can be; they do anything for a guy if they think the guy really likes them, and they don't even realize that they're being taken advatage of. It would be different if she just likes to fuck, but that doesn't seem to be the case.

Have you told you're friend all of this? If he's a real friend, then he'll take you seriously. If not, then beat his fuckin ass and let him know it'll happen again if he takes advantage of her.

 

umm.. were talking about a girl that likes to get dicked.. not your sister.. so that comparison is completely out of context..

if your friend talks her into having sex.. what? i really don't see what's wrong with this.. now if he just takes her and fucks her(which is also known as rape) then that's a different story.. i understand the feelings situation.. but you're going too deep... you cannot control other peoples life decisions

 

Damn she's 15? I guess she picked a good time to cool down.

 

well.. he's not gonna fix the situation by telling his buddy he's not allowed to fuck her.. Ian.. you cannot play "Captain Save-A-Ho"... she'll fuck someone else.. are you gonna go around and beat everyone up that wants to have sex with her? seriously.. step back and analyze

 

hahhahaha

 

lol.. i dont mean that in reference to his SN either.. haha.. its just a saying

 

I know what I'm going to do.

Nothing matters anymore, what the hell am I fucking doing, letting my friend do this to some 15 year old girl. I wouldn't let this happen to anybody, so I'm definitely not going to let it happen to someone that cried their eyes out to me.

What he's doing if fucking wrong, I'll show him fucking wrong.

 

I don't mean to jack the thread, but you totally made me think of this song:



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGobXsmPx78"]YouTube- Project Pat - Don't Save Her (feat. Three 6 Mafia)

 

sounds great

 

Handle your business, broham.