I have exactly the opposite advice of dreamagain, lol...I'd say just accept that it's going to be awkward and terrible and get it over with as quick as you can so you can move on to actually trying to have decent sex with people you care about. And I guess the lesson there is, everyone's first time is different; do what feels right for you. My first time was awk city and I was totally nervous.
was extremely nervous and was more pressured to do it than anything so did not enjoy it at all.. damn ass begged me for a year lol.. finally gave in and he sucked never did cum once with him.. the next was showed me what sex was really like and haven't stopped since lol..
honestly I didnt really understand what was happening until after it happend. I freaked out. then called my BFFL and cried. yep I am lame.
I was really scared the first few times we tried, but a few months later, I was just like "dammit, let's get this over with." It was this huge deal to me for a while, but when I was ready for it, it didn't really make any difference to me at all.
I was so excited I literaly came in less than a minute, I was trying so hard not too that it wasn't a very good orgasm but because I was so young and so excited that I never lost my erection and just kept going ha lucky for her
HAHAHA! Dude, I don't know what you're talking about, but I have NO attachment to my first what-so-ever. And I know she has no attachment to me, aside from still fucking from time to time.