I'll never forget doing a gig with a guest female vocalist who was smoking hot. Went for a drink with her afterward, she gave me a big come on that I stupidly didn't take up. She was the second hottest 40 year old I've ever seen. sigh. Recently rehearsed for a new trio, but had to pull out because the keys player was an amazingly gorgeous lady who is the hottest 40 year old I've seen. I walked before I made an idiot of myself with her. At least she'll remember me as a great guitarist, not as an ugly doofus who fucked up the band by hitting on her.