What Are/ Have You Been Doing Today?

I had the most stressful day, my notebook decided that 12 hours of work, that needed to be handed tonight, on excel wasn't important so it didn't save it :computer: I spent the whole day doing everything again. I'm so tired, I want to finish uni already!
But tomorrow my dreadies are 7 months and I'm going to a new photography course, so it's not all bad

 

are you a person who works out so you feel less guilty about eating crap

today.. was ridiculous. got my friends car out of a huge trench on my property, he slid down last night while backing up. these guys saved us... finding them was the luckiest thing. guy was an aerospace engineer who had lived in china for six years. now he chops cedar "for a living" and has a 17 month old kid. his truck was 12,000 lbs and beautiful, but it was his brother was the one who pulled us out, he had a wench.

we also killed a wild turkey (found an egg inside!) and got a border collie pup we're calling Strider. I fucking love the country.

 

Well, Today Has Certainly Turned Out Better Than My Last Waterlogged Post,No 155.

Finally Got Official Word That The Legal Issues Surrounding 162 Acres Of Land I

Am Trying To Sell Have Been Resolved, And There Are At Least Two Serious

Potential Buyers Waiting In The Wings....

The Real Estate Agent Wants Me To Put It Up For Auction, But Something In My

Water Tells Me Straight Out Negotiation Is The Best Road To Take....

On The Negative Side, Tis Only 3-22pm Here, So There Is Still Time Left

In The Day For Lot's Of Stuff To Go "Bellie Up"....



Cheers Glen.

 

I'm right there with you, although today I finished yet another production, one left to finish off which is one day on a plane and then I'm finished all my major subject work for the year

 

I did a trip out to the dump to get rid of the cylcone wrecked shed that's been sitting in our yard. Then made a trip out to another national park near there and went for a walk up the mountain to have a swim. Was beautiful there.

Came home ad the girls were keen for a swim, so went to this really cool lagoon/pool near us that we'd never been to before.

And now having a few drinks with friends.

 

Organising trip to the isle of wight. Ringing hotel, studio, all sorts of people. Only thing left that is panicing me is food- since I'm vegan I can't really eat at the hotel resturant (I'm staying there for dirt cheap because of it) so I'm just gonna buy some pot noodles and live off chinese take away for the 4 nights im there ^^ At last, the thought of not being vegan disgusts me ^^

 

Didn't do much but sit around yesterday.

Today I went and bought coffee and dog food. Hopefully my day will be more productive.

 

Found emails between my husband and some girl off Omegle. I don't know what to do, but I know I don't want to be with him anymore after this. My head is a mess and he thinks it's no big deal and that it was a joke and merely a "game" they were playing.

On a different note, Bluetits are nesting right outside my back door. This is a bad move on their part.

 

That's pretty heavy HDH

 

I know. After all the sacrifices I've made for him too. I feel so betrayed.

 

why is there so many assholes out there giving us nice guys a bad name

 

I've come to realise there are no nice guys anymore. Eventually every man will cheat whether it's physically or disrespecting their wives by telling other women "I am thinking about you in a tight thong and playing with your toys on the bed ;P"

But of course, she was 14 stone so that "doesn't count" and he was "never actually thinking about her" when he was sending her those emails. It was "for the lols".

"For the lols" is not gaining girls emails and messaging them with "hey black haired beauty ;p".

 

Duh fuck? What has her being 14 stone got to do with anything?! Unless he was emailing her for some sick joke on her (if it was, im sure he would have let you in on it), that's a bit fucking shit. What are you gonna do?

 

I presume if it was a joke it would have stayed on Omegle and not resulted in the exchange of emails to play this "game".

What am I going to do? Well, in a perfect world, I would leave him and divorce him. But I can't afford to do either, since he's run us into the ground with debt.

I don't have anybody to turn to. So I'm going to have to continue to live with him for a long time.


I no longer consider myself to be his wife after this though. I have zero tolerence for this kind of shit. I just don't know where to go from here.

Of course, like all men who get caught doing this shit, they turn the blame onto the wife and I am no exception because I "have clearly misunderstood the emails". All 21 of them, and I am being given the silent treatment for being "a silly girl".

 

surely there is someone who could take you in, family or friends?

 

Sorry to hear all that HDH, hope you can find a way out of all this! Take care!

 

I haven't spoken to any family in over six years and I have no true friends irl. I find it really difficult to make friends because everyone I have ever known including family have screwed me over at some point in my relationship with them, so I can't trust people because I expect them to fuck me over. One hundred per cent of people I have ever known have proved my expectations right.

 

I'm sorry Men suck most of the time. I was engaged a year or so back, and he cheated on me. If I had any space for a person, I'd invite you to come and stay with me. :grouphug: You're better than him, so do what you can to make yourself happy and free from dickheads.

 

Thanks Tipsy. I wish I could go home. But instead I've been dragged halfway across England so he can live back in Devon as an ode to his childhood without any real thought of housing stability [we're renting this house while the landlady is perfoming in an Opera in London] and if she turned round and wanted her house back, we would be made homeless.

In hindsight, I wished I'd never married this scumbag.

 

Maybe the problem isn't totally theirs, granted this guy should not have been messaging other women but surely their are others in your life or have been that have not done things like this. Really, at some point everyone pisses people off and messes up, they don't do it to hurt you