What are the chances that she's pregnant?

Does any one know any methods for relieving severe leg pain?

 

How severe is it? If she's got swollen legs or ankles, avoid the salt for sure, I told you this already, but prop up the legs. This is what I was told when I was preg. Make sure she is eating bland stuff for now. plenty of water too. Hope you are well sweetie.

 

Thank you CP. The elevation suggestion is working out. No swelling, just cramps and weariness mostly.

 

I really think you should lighten up a bit OP. You seem to be wound really tight. Like with the anger thing, and the lack of control thing. I think the rage over the fart thing was unwarranted. Farts are funny. I'm going to have Louis C.K. make my point for me.

http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/tue-june-28-2011/louis-c-k-

You also should lighten up when it comes to Bernadette getting loud with her friends. If she wasn't doing a topless table dance, sometimes it's just best to et things slide. Pick your battles.

The swearing thing...people swear, it isn't bad. No one's going to Hell for it. Here. look. Hey! Another video!!

There are a lot of things that people do that irk the shit out of me.

(JACKASS WHO YELLED AT ME THINKING THAT SOMEHOW I COULD HEAR YOU IF MAYBE YOU JUST RAISED YOUR VOICE....I'M DEAF YOU IDIOT!!!)

I don't get up in anyone's face and want to hit them over it. Just let that which annoys you roll off your back and move on.

I think, to be honest, that you'd enjoy life more if you calmed down a bit, and weren't wrapped so tight.

And don't call the girl you're banging an oaf, it makes people think either you have bad taste in women, or you're just mean.

I hope you understand I'm not getting on your case, inasmuch as just trying to give you some stuff to think about.

I actually think you'll be ok. Just think about what I've said, ok?

 

Muscle relaxers!!

(DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT I'M KIDDING!!)

Massages are blessed by the gods. I'm saying they are really good. Try massaging your legs, or maybe a really hot bath.

 

You like the the dailyshow?! You've just moved up 10 notches on my respect-o-meter.

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Anyway yeah if someone's deaf...it's not the same as hard-of-hearing where raising your voice might work, but even then.

Deaf people can't hear, it's kinda the definition of deaf, the only thing they might be able to hear is the sound of a nuclear weapon. (we know this because there was a deaf japanese guy who heard the bombs and survived them from either Nagasaki or Hiroshima, I can't remember which)

 

@girlsaregamers2

You're completely right about that. My temper is my own worst enemy, and If i'm going to get anywhere, I need to relax. That said, I do want to address some of those issues.

With the incident of her farting in the car (and other times), I feel that if I've mentioned that I don't like it being done right in front of me, she should understand where I'm coming from and make the effort not to do so (as well as saying 'excuse me'). But yes I agree that I might've overreacted.

What happened at the senior trip I won't get into much detail about, but it was a bit obnoxious and loud, and was clearly bothering some other people. All I said was that if she could lower her voice, and she just blew up on me, calling me a 'bitch' and other vulgarities while getting up in my face. It was weak of me to wanna act out violently, but i don't think i could've avoided being angry all together.

The swearing annoys me because I don't want her cussing all the time in front of baby when she gets here. It'd be fine if it were once in a while, but I swear every other word that comes out of her mouth is a vulgarity.

I shouldn't have called her an oaf in my first post. For that, I am sorry. I was really scared and angry at the time, but that doesn't excuse my being an asshole.

Despite all of those problems, we have been working on our relationship. We haven't had a fight with in a while, and she's been opening up more and allowing us to talk through our problems. I do think things are improving for the better, and that we can get along as parents.

 

No she is a skank and an oaf. She's a bully remember? Someone that fat has the nerve to bully other people? I can't stand people like her. I don't like any drama in my life. Farting isn't funny, it's disgusting and if you have to do it you should go to the bathroom. It's unbecoming of a woman. I hate loud, obnoxious, and vulgar people too and to get in someone's face just because they said to lower your voice is totally uncalled for.

 

@TheSamantha

While it's true bernadette doesn't have the best looks or personality in the world, I don't think it's fair to call her a skank or an oaf. I didn't forget that she used to bully freshmen for money. But that was before the pregnancy, and she doesn't do that anymore. I too think that in some cases, farting is very unladylike. Especially if she doesn't say excuse me, or if it sounds like a guy farting. What annoys me is when she's walking she'll just stop, lift up one leg, fart, then go back to her business like nothing happened. It's gross. But our doctor was saying that the gassiness is part of the pregnancy. I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought she was being messed up during the senior trip.

However obnoxious or vulgar she may seem though, she is carrying our daughter. And I'm not without flaws either. I have a short temper and cheating got me here in the first place. But no matter what problems the both of us have, we have been improving on them, and wanna stick together for the sake of our child.

 

And this kids, is why you shouldn't fuck without a condom. You may end up having a child with an obnoxious, fat, foul mouthed farter.

Definitely the worst one night stand I've ever heard of.

 

For the last time, I'm tired of the insulting comments. Please leave your vulgarities at the door, and stop insulting me and my wife. I've had enough, and don't want to start fights on here.

 

Don't worry about them btr. I read this thread yesterday and was wondering how you guys were doing. So, things are going well with the baby?

 

My daughter's doing well, thank you. She's going to be one come October.

I see that you yourself are having child on the way. I can only say congratulations, and good luck. You are on the path of an amazing journey.

 

Awesome.

Yea due in a few weeks. This will be our second. Our first one is three and a half. And yes... it is an amazing journey.

Glad to hear you guys are doing well!

 

Hmm. Really tough situation you're in. But before anything else, in case that girl shows you a fake DNA test or a fake pregnancy test, as we'll never know if she got it from sites such as FakeaBaby, etc. then might as well get a paternity test as mentioned above.

 

Ah, you already have a three year old. Excellent. You and your s.o. must have a very good relationship. Once again, congratulations, and I hope this 10 month period has been easy for the both of you.

 

Well it's been a long while since that point, but thank you for the advice anyway. The pregnancy wasn't faked, and luckily my daughter actually is mine. My life, at this point, is a lot less stressful than it was over a year ago.

I'm getting ready for this nice labor day tomorrow with the fam. Hopefully everyone else here is doing good too.

 

Hi. Yep a three year old who is sick and having tantrums right now because of potty training things... but love him to death and wouldn't trade it for the world, even when it's hard.

My relationship isnt always picture perfect and has had it's moments but it's, thus far, stood the test of time and i appreciate it so much.

anyways, again thanks. overall the pregnancy hasn't been bad but it's had it's ups and downs. hoping for a good delivery now as it'll be anytime!

not to be too nosy or anything but actually just curious---and wishing you guys the best!!--how is your relationship now with your babies mother? I'm sure it's not 100% perfect (no relationships are anyways!) but have you two made things work for the shared sake of your child and also grown fond of our other? are there still ups and downs?

 

I'm sure your son will get into the habit very soon. And it will all be worth it just to not have to buy diapers any more ($$$). You and your s.o. seem like great parents. Keep working at it, because you both are doing a good job so far. I can imagine the best aspect of this is that your son will now have someone to look after and spend time with. Being an only child, I'm always happy to see parents with multiple children.

Bernadette and I are doing very well, thank you. We have been married for a year, and things between us since then have been going much better. I'm working hard at my two jobs while she quit hers so she could have more time to look after our little one. She makes sure not to curse or anything like that around the baby, and I always make sure I spend as much time with the both of them on the weekends. We have our struggles of course. It's been hard for Bernadette to give up drinking, but as she's feeding the baby naturally, we've both had to go into dieting. She doesn't want to exercise though, as she's too tired each week. I'm just worried about her health, seeing as how she's roughly the same weight since last year (297lbs). When not around the baby though, her vocabulary is still mostly limited to curses. When not around my parents, she still burps and passes gas on occasion, while laughing and not excusing herself. She's still a little messy, and her sex drive is higher, while mine has lowered in all these months. But these things feel like little annoyances, and not full on problems anymore. We've long reached a point where we feel completely comfortable with each other, and I'm happy that we work so well together as parents for our daughter.

Today actually, we're having a barbecue at my folks' place, and her family's coming over. It's gonna be a nice time (though I'm dreading going back to work tomorrow!). I hope your day goes well too, and thanks for caring about how I'm doing. I really appreciate it.

 

Oh, sorry, I wasn't able to checkout the latest posts. Still getting used to navigating the site! I'm so glad that everything's gettin' better now with your new bundle of joy!