What are you/have you been doing today?

I can see a divorce before we even get the chance to move. It and he is doing my head in. I wish I had a job.

 

Hdh saay wwhhAAAAttt ??!! A divoorrccee?

 

Yeah, he is doing my head in sleeping in til 2pm everyday. He keeps churning up excuses like "I've been waiting for new houses to come online" "I'm enjoying my weekend" "I'll ring them later"....So forth.

I've had to sit and find houses myself for him to ring about and I came across plenty. Threats of calling it all off are just not working. I need to work, I'm sick of sitting on my arse all day and I'm sick of him doing nothing.

 

I ust got done doing a bit of Yoga, and now I am contemplating "breaking up" with my lover because I honeslty do not feel emotionally stable enough amongst other things to be in a sexual platonic relationship at the time. I am so confused. I am trying to find myself, and I know it is not fair to him for me to stay around. I do not feel like I can learn what I need from him, nor that I can provide him with what he wants. Oh dear
lol at me rambling about my life on a fucking forum of all places.
go figure.

 

Seems everyone is having a hard time atm with their loove life I dunno what to say hdh >< I would say "see how it goes" But I learnt from my last relationship never to say that, so I dunno Is he under alot of stress from work? Or just being lazy?

 

He doesn't work and hasn't in 18 months!!! Fucking annoys me SERIOUSLY, ALL WE DO IS STAY INSIDE 24/7 My life is APPALLING. I am 23 years old and I have my laptop glued to my thigh permanently. Am I outgrowing him? Probably. I need to work and he does fuck all to help me "no, don't work, if you do then we won't even be earning what we do on benefits. Wait until we move". I don't WANT to wait I want to live my life and WORK. I feel like crying my eyes out.

 

as much as I hate doing this over the net

-Hugs and cuddles HDH-

If it means anything

 

bomchickawowwow.

 

Lol enjoy ^^

Hhddhhhdddhhh that suucks I say give him a kick up the arse'ol, does he actually want to move? He doesn't seem as passionate about it/working as you ddoo

 

No idea but I ended up crying and I swear not half an hour later he finds thirty houses for rent to ring tomorrow. He thinks that calling 3 or 5 landlords every day or so is enough but I don't. I don't want to nag because I hate being a whiny bitch and I don't even know how many houses should be up for rent at a time so I wonder if I'm too harsh on him.

Today we found about 45 houses to ring round compared to his daily 5. I don't know if he's trying too little or it was a lucky day.

 

I feel bad for all you ladies going through a tough time I hope it all gets better soon, and im not sure where your from HDH but it seems like calling five potential landlords a day is a little excessive to me, is it that your having trouble getting a place or are you looking for the "perfect place", i've never really had to go through more than 4-5 landlords total to get a place

 

Maybe today he finally has that boot up his arse, with you crying and all. I just hope for your sake he keeps it up

 

Really?? That quick? landlords aren't liking that we have pets, we're not holding out for the perfect place as such but anything that's near a bus/train route and accepts pets. They're all like:

No smokers
No pets
No DSS
No gay men [single unmarried men] lolsy
No unwaged

I don't know how to search for a house and what's excessive house searching. It's so stressful being in this situation.

 

Does UK have a version of welfare, you could always try that live in government housing

 

Anthony B - "Everybody's gotta work to be Independent ..."

One Love!

 

the only trouble i ever find is a lot of people dont like students, my roommate doesnt work but can afford not too, most lease's i find do have a no pets clause and some on occasion dont allow smoking, the place i just moved into does not allow smoking but we have a big balcony so smoking can be done there, plus i dont like it inside anyway,

That no gay one is rediculous, how can they get away with that

 

Yea but there is a list and apparently takes ages.. unless you are disabled.. I think.

Hdh what is dss? And according to all landlords all single unmarried men are gay?!! LOL well. And why wouldn't they want them in their house, gay or not? JEees.

 

I shaved. I feel 11 again

 

why?

 

I'm off to sell barbie and woody dolls!