well it looks like we won't be ECing, afterall. Abryn just hates any position I hold her above the toilet. she wiggles around and straightens her legs out until I finally stop holding her like that. I think it's just weird for her and she doesn't like it. but now at least I have the information for baby #2!...whenver that one comes...
I found that if I let Moire "stand on the toilet" and just played with her, hissing and smiling, when she needed to pee, she'd bend her legs and hit the potty right away. Don't be discouraged by her fussing. It's a new feeling for her, but if you just experiment and keep trying, she'll get the idea. And it's relatively fuss-free. I heart going through less diapers in a day!