What defines love????

It seems that many here on HF have the non-jealous type because they do gangbangs and swapping and love it without jealousy. These are my kind of people.

 

It will be debated until the end of time.
We are all different.
I love the differing ideas from everyone.
I am no expert.

 

Oh, a little different. lol

 

If you love a flower don't pick it. Nurture it, give it what is likes and needs to flourish. Same with people. Find out what they like to do and vice versa. If they want to bring another person into your bed and if you agree, then go for it. If not then maybe you guys need different partners.

 

I am married. I got my soul man. xxx

 

Me too I got my soul girl for 23 years now and goin strong.

 

We cannot explain to anyone how???
It just happens.

Yay 23yrs. xxxx

 

IMO we attract who we need. When in my 20's and 30's I seem to have attracted girls who wanted sex all the time with no attachment. That is exactly what I needed. Then I wanted the mind connection and bam there she was. Go figure.

 

"IMO we attract who we need. When in my 20's and 30's I seem to have attracted girls who wanted sex all the time with no attachment. That is exactly what I needed. Then I wanted the mind connection and bam there she was. Go figure."

Yeah, that's how I met my second wife. I just didn't know she was anything but monogamous. I was in my 50s so I should have known better.

 

That is lovely to share. X
Thanks.

Glad you are happy. X

 

Nice if I read a same sex couples view.

 

Mmm, some women do not need love for sex.
I have seen them on the sex forums. lol

Love not enough????

 

Someone asked me once, "when was the specific moment when you fell in love with your wife"?
I said, " if I were to fall in love with her we would lose what we have had for the past 20 years."
She is my bff. We really like each others company. She is fun to play house with. She is super fun to have sex with but she is the most fun to hang out with and talk to for hours and days on end.

 

You are blessed.
Love will get us through this current dilemma.

 

You are blessed too kiddo but this is a tough one. We wear mask and gloves on our daily walks. People look weird at us but screw them pnemonia hurts like hell. Stay well, my friend.

 

Who cares what we look like.
You stay safe.

 

If you are happy and loved then you will come through anything.
My Postman leaves the package on my doorstep.

 

These times are definitely tough. Love can be smooth like glass, or rough like sandpaper. My first two long term relationships were 10 years each. Started out like glass and got rougher as time went on. There was just enough differences between us that it slowly wore out the surface. I'm grateful for the learning experience throughout this time period. And blessed to have an amazing son with one, and daughter with the other. But in the end it was all about me and my happiness. I was who I was, and they were who they were. I would never ask someone to change who they really are. So, that was the end. It wasn't until I met my current wife, that I found out what TRUE love really is. Her charm, personality, sassiness, and love for everyone around her is something I never knew existed in the past (With others). We just keep falling deeper and deeper in love, every second of every day. And when it comes to our sexual personalities and cravings, we share the same brain lol. Something that I never encountered in my past relationships. Love is when everything is amazing, smiles and those sassy looks and giggles are in an endless supply. Your hearts ache and you're already missing them days before they've even left your side. And while you're away, something as simple as a selfie with an amazing smile, creates a tiny waterfall below each eye. Those feelings only get stronger as time goes on.

 

What a wonderful and thoughtful post.
I am glad you found true love.
Some search for it all their lives.

 

The same here. I put gloves on and keep my distance.
You stay safe and loved. x