Thanks, In this case, our love keeps us apart. Due to her disease and permanently weakened immune system, we're 4 hours apart. Been weeks now, and I'm sure it's going to be many more to come before all this is under control. It's for her safety. Love will get us through this. Wishing you all a safe and healthy journey ahead.
Sara, it's amazing how much our thinking and moods are alike. Almost scary lol. But that's just one of the countless reasons that make us so happy together. We've never had a fight or argument. Simple differences of opinion, oh heck yes. But we talk and laugh about it every time. And at the end we always seem to use it for an excuse to make love. At the end of a talk we'll just say something like "Cool, now that we talked about that, I guess we need to fuck".
For us all mail and packages are received with rubber gloves, dated and placed in order received. If they look important we open them if not they sit for 4 days in the sum. The packages are the same but if important I spray alcohol before opening. Then I either wash the golove or spray them also.
There is something about you that resonates with me and I like friends like that. Stay well in this nutso time.
Having been married to the same woman for 40 years here’s what I can tell you. There will be times during the course of marriage that the feeling of love fades. My response and really my wife’s as well has been to love with actions regardless of how I feel. Treat her with the acts of love. The feeling will return. If you equate love with just the feeling of being in love it’s not enough. Actions are what love is made out of.
True love is defined by two people who give themselves selflessly to one another, encompassing an impregnable bond. A bond so strong that 2 souls dance as one, mimicking one another’s inner strengths. Human nature on the other hand, is the enemy of true love. For the idea to act upon one’s selfish ideology is acted upon, a void of uncertainty is unleashed. It is through the acts of uncertainty that doubt is introduced. Doubt leads to loss of respect. A relationship void of respect leads to intolerance. As intolerance spreads, it’s gangrenous wound festers and love ceases to exist.