What do guys think about Waiting Til Marriage

To all the girls who shared my life
Who now are someone else's wives
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song
To all the girls I've loved before

 

This is 110% your decision. Careful not to let people on forums sway or influence your decision or conviction.
Your choice is your choice.

My wife and I waited till marriage and for us is was the right choice. We have great and amazing sex now. It took some time and communication but I firmly believe I can please her like no one else can. This is because I have taken the time to learn and love, her mind body and soul.

But this is our story. Yours is unique and special to you. Again you are empowered. 110% your choice!

 

Life is short. Good luck with that.

 

Penises and vaginas were meant to be used and used often but if for any reason you choose not to, it is your choice.

 

Definitely your choice. However, don't expect a lot of men clamoring about not to have sex for long time at 30...plus you need to understand if you are sexually compatible - that would be bad to find out after you were already married.

 

There is nothing worse than on your honeymoon your bride saying to you, "it is great that you waited for me to have sex and that is good because I don't like sex anyway so you can continue with what you are use to. I love you sweaty lets go for a walk after we change out of my gown and your tux. You are the man I have been waiting for. I didn't think there were any A-sexual men left in the world."

 

Is this a hypothetical statement or did this happen to you. Because just because you don't have sex before marriage does not mean you can't talk about it lol.

We had all kinds of sex talks before we wed. When we were particularly horny and having trouble keeping our hands off each other, we bought each other sex toys and encouraged each other to masturbate like crazy lol. It was an awesome challenge.

 

No not exactly. What happened to me was we had great sex for months til I said I do. She refused sex on our honeymoon and we only had sex about once a month after that. I got divorced within one year. It was like she went nuts or something. After we split she wanted to fuck like a rabbit again and said she was wrong and sorry and didn't know what she was doing. I said I will fuck you whenever you want but the divorce is still going thru.

 

Ouch I guess I could relate to that as our sex drives are wildly different. My lady tries to bridge the gap as much as possible and we match in many many other ways. Great sex once a week or two. Great masturbation almost daily. It works for me and us. I would postulate that there is more to marriage than sex, and while it's a SUPER IMPORTANT part. There can be ways to work around the descpency without seeing before marriage. Certainly not shaming those who do, but there are options for those who chose not to.

 

Free will my friend.

 

Yes indeed my friend.

 

So, how long are you planning on waiting, before giving up the ship or in this case, your vagina?
Surely you're dating, if your plans are to marry, so just how far have you gone during foreplay thus far?
In the meanwhile and assuming that you're not asexual, have you been having regular orgasms through self gratification?

 

Dumbest idea and biggest joke there is on the flock

 

My father said that he did not have carnal knowledge of my mother until their wedding night, not that he didn't try earlier. I asked him if he would have married mother if she did give in to his advances, and he said probably not. My wife and I had sex well before there was any mention of marriage. I am quite sure that I would not have proposed if we were not having sex. Bottom line, our son is here because his grandmother held out and his mother didn't.

 

Yes, have sex, lots before Marriage!

 

Too funny!.....but at one time with certain culture upbringing, the idea was for finding a virgin and/or that if you could fuck them, leave them and if you couldn't fuck them, then marry them so you could fuck them.
Usually they were pretty young and can't imagine any mature lady going without that would perform in bed adequately later on in a marriage.

 

My parents told me that I cannot even date until I graduated college. They were very Catholic. Unbeknown to them I was sucking dick at 13 and fucking at 15. We are all human beings. When a human being reaches the age where there is a quickening in his or her loins and they want to have sex they should by that time have a very good understanding of how birth, disease etc. works.

Show them movies of teen age single parents who cannot go out with friends and need to take care of their kid with little or no money. Let them know if they want to act married they will suffer the pressures of finances. Show them a movie on how STD's look on people in advanced stages. Then if your kid gets a disease or is involved in a pregnancy you can smile and say "don't say I didn't warn you." Then they are on their own. I am a strong believer in this way of living.

Too many parents coddle their kids way too much and pick them up every time they fall. Teach them the facts of life and let them have at it.

 

I used to think waiting was the thing to do.
Until I started looking at girls not as sexual objects but with sexual desire. That never changed from that point forward.

I would not want to wait at this point in my life, and from reading some comments I would worry about a woman using sex to reel me in until married.
Like some say, that’s my point of view and don’t let it be yours

 

Yeah I have strong religious beliefs but don’t believe we have to wait until marriage.

I’m Catholic. Yes, Catholicism has some strict rules but I also know God gave me free will and a sense of morality so never fully accepted the doctrine that men in black robes define my morality. I trust in God to let me know what is right and wrong. God made me horny. God made us not naturally monogamous. He gave us the drive to reproduce and ensure the survival of the species. He (or she, whatever) also gave us the gift of love, so children born out of love are also blessed.

Intimacy is just as important as love, so to me denying intimacy is big a sin as denying love. It’s how God made us. I also believe marriage is the ultimate commitment of trust.

I have cousins who waited until marriage. All the power to them, but I don’t think it’s necessary. Or natural.

Just be responsible about it.

 

I have a Mormon friend who said that the kids in his church are getting married on Friday, fucking all weekend and getting annulments on Monday. He said that's ok with their God, no rules broken.