What do I do?

Yeah 16 was a bit shit, well thats not true..but compared to 17 and this year it was
Lifes only been getting better

 

coh mue nih cay shun. it's all you need to do.

 

^^what he said

 

Which Was.....??..



Cheers Glen.

 

You shall learn young tad pole, you shall learn!

Not to get too personal but are you both virgins?(don't lie, no one on an internet stoner forum cares if you're a virgin at only 16)

 

yes we both are and i know i don't care if people care either..

 

Well then yes, take it slow. I assume your g/f is probably 15/16 too, and teenage girls are just as horny as teenage boys. In fact after you have sex the first time you guys might wind up starting to fuck like rabbits. She probably feels awkward with what she's doing(ah fuck when don't teenagers feel awkward period), there's different pressures on boys and girls, and for boys it's often to fuck a girl as soon as possible, and she's aware, and might be afraid you just want to ram your dick into her then bolt.

But what do you do aside from kissing and boob touching. Is it only lip kissing? If so, then move elsewhere, kiss the neck, kiss the ear and lick it gently, and blow on it gentle, a lot of people get really turned on by that. If you only feel her tits through her shirt, then try for under the shirt, worst thing that will happen is she'll push your hand away.

Also, first time you have sex proper, you'll probably be terrible at it and it may hurt her a bit. No offense to you, it's just realistically there's a good of this happening on both ends. What I'm saying is when it finally comes time for that don't worry about being the Nietzsche superman of sex.

 

thanks this was more of a response i was looking for. yeah i do kiss her neck other places and it depends mostly under the shirt.

i was just talking to her and she said that she's "ready to take it to the next level" whatever that may be, i will find out tomorow.

 

Well, she's obviously willing to go for something deeper. I'd say if it goes well and you haven't done it yet, go for unhooking bra, pushing up the shirt and going for mouth on boob play. And proceed from there.

 

girls are pretty weird at times... but a month isn't alot of time. if you're upset about it being a 'whole month' or something, like some kids... then you should get a grip on reality.
a month isn't enough time to get to know someone, to a point where you might decide to become sexual with them, unless you don't plan on having a good relationship with them.


at least, that's what i think, mostly.

 

well if you read what i wrote you'll see "we've been going out for a month(i know not a long time)"

 

You love her.... oooOOoohh, I see...

And you're 16... yeahhh.....

Dat slut, lettin someone finger her.... teh nerve

 

When I was 15 I had a serious boyfriend, but we waited a year. From the time we first met and got to know each other to the point where we actually had sex. We stayed together for 3 years, we had sex constantly. So I guess i'd say it's worth the wait. Show her that your a good guy and you want your first time (with her) to be nice. She might be worried she's not good at it, or that you'll leave her after or something.

 

yeah.. nice one..

 

A month and no play? If i don't get play within a week.. I'm lookin else where

 

Do you have anything more to say?

Do I not have fair points?

You are sixteen, and where in a relationship a very short time. You did not love her. Be careful how you use that word, it's a very powerful word, and can pull you into situations you don't want to be in.

"I love this girl, but if she doesn't put out before 2 months, I'ma have to break it off"

^^^Ain't how it works.

If you want sex, go find sex, but don't confuse it with love, it will only hurt you and others.

 

never once did i say that i was going to break up with her if she doesn't put out.. i never even said i was frustated because i wasn't getting sex i said i want more than just to make out with her...

just because you think you may know everything doesn't mean i don't love her, age has nothing to do with it IMO. this whole situation isn't really a big deal to me either i just wanted to write what was on my mind and everyone made it sound like i was going to rape her.

 

i absolutely agree with this HOWEVER learning the difference is a part of growing up too. and people do get hurt along the way. its inevitable.
too bad there isnt a protocol for teaching kids the difference in school, or teaching young kids to explore their feelings and the reasons for them from a young age. then it would be easier to feel the diferences in feelings, if you were already familiar with those feelings. oh well, in a perfect world i guess.

 

And you're 19. So?

 

And I'm 19. So I would need to be considerably past being pissy that some chick I hardly just met wouldn't let me stick my hand down her pants before I professed love for her, especially if sticking my hand down her pants was the deciding factor for ending the relationship.