sister ..or freind..once i'm lil closer with em its generaly hun or sweety wether its a freind or whatever..well unless i'm callen em by name ..chicks sometimes like your 1 cool chick..or..like hippy chicks..chicks i guess when theres a certain hipnessosity bout em...yea hipnessosity is a hipnecesaty to quialify for chicknitude
first of all, I do not call her MINE, she is her own individual self, unique in all of is, what is. An exquisite manifestaion of the energy of which, every one of the silent stars is also made. There is today, as far as I've been able to tell, deep and very dangerous problems with what people come to think love between two people means. There are very good reasons why this is so, that is a subject for another thread though. there is one failure within how we come to what knowledge we have of love that I want to put out here for consideration, and my confidence in the accuracy of this information is such that I would put it out as a strong assertion. Falling in Love is a pathological process that results in relationships fraught with landmines, injustices, and vulnerabilities, further "falling in love' many times will accentuate any dysfunctional or pathological patterns of behavior that exist before it begins. Falling in love is to be avoided, if it can't be then it must be brought into determined conscious guidance. I would further strongly assert that the thing that we ought to be doing is "Becoming in Love", Becomming in love, a much better concept, for one thing consider, there is no end to becomming, whereas we all know how falls end, painfully. Becoming in love as it matures is something that happens between two "individuals" and it is an enhancer, and amplifier of all that is good in each other. One more characteristic of Becoming in Love, is that it is procreative, and I'm not talking about making babies here, this is an act of procreation that transcends altogether the confines of what survival of the fittest would ever bring about. when two people are successfully "Becoming in Love" there is a you, and an I, and another entity comes into existance, but it is not an "independant entity", however I strongly assert that it does become existant and that is the formation of an "Us" Brothers and Sisters, you who would stand and be counted as "Hippies", I charge you with a life long task, we need to fix "Love", we're the only ones who I think can do it. we must, we are morally mandated to stop handing our children, broken things. It makes no difference what lies behind, what matters is, what is to become. sine cera
When talking to my girlfriend i will pretty much always refer to her as "baby" and occasionally "babe" and will use "love" at the end of making a statement to her from time to time.
female humans. the one i'm married to i refer to as wifie. i'd use the term lady, especialy for prostitutes, as i prefer to honor everyone equtably, but i find doing so never seems to become entirely popular and the term, seems to carry a baggage of gender based prejudice i wish no to imply. so the most non-loaded with absurdities term/concept, i can think of would simply be "female humans" =^^= .../\...
Generally, when speaking about someone and not using her name, I call women "this woman" "this chick" "...mama" "...sister" depending on how well I know them and in what capacity, etc. A coworker of my partner's would be "woman", a young party girl might be "chick", a spinny hippie girl might be "sister", and I usually refer to hippie ladies who are in some way more grounded and grown up/grown into themselves as "mama" (not necessarily an age thing, and doesn't necessarily have to do with whether or not there are children in the picture). To friends of mine, when I'm referring to THEM, I might call them any one of those, or "pretty lady" "sweet lady" etc. Ian and I rarely ever refer to each other by name, except when we're apart and talking ABOUT one another... In our home life, we're usually the only ones around so it's just not necessary. When we are calling one another from another room or something and trying to get attention, we use names as a last resort or to communicate annoyance/impatience. Instead we usually say "honey" "sweetie" or something along those lines. We drive our friends crazy, because we've been together so long and know each other so well that we're totally psychic with each other anyway.
i usually call my little girls "woman" ... "hey woman, what'cha doing?" i always hated being called little girl or girl
sister and I liek for people to call me sister or by my name, you call me babe I beat the piss out of you :lol: I'm sorry, I have a thing with that :lol:
Bitches and hos. All my girls be bitches and hos, and if they start whining, I start punching. Damn bitches gotta know who dey boss is. A good kick in the ass only puts them in their place, it don't hurt nobody.
Attempting to control anyone, especially a grown adult, is difficult to impossible and requires more enegrgy than I'm willing to expend on any one task. When in a group of like aged males, one's descriptive terms of another are not minimized by the bounds political correctiveness and are delivered without regard to any rules or regulations regarding sexual harassment, attacks on character, (or lack thereof) or physical attributes. When, however, one finds themselves in a mixed group, behaviors must change.