What do you find attractive in another person...

I swear all the time. Fuck is one of my favorite words. But I have no problem filtering myself when I have to. My grandpa has never heard me say a single swear word. And obviously, I never swear at work. I never even really think about it. I just flip a switch in my head and don't do it.

 

I have slipped up around my mom before, but she is so prudish about that kind of thing she might wrinkle her face for even using 'shoot' or 'dang' lol

 

I have two completely separate sides in my life, like having two personalities, one with proper language and my Flip side I call it. Like me for which ever one but once I get some kind of memory disease I am fucked! Won't know what to use where, hahaha.
Mind you I was on a course the gov offered us and one guy on it couldn't talk during coffee breaks without using it so many times I finally yelled "Fuck! What's wrong with you!? Fuck fuck fuck!" Everyone stopped, started snickering and laughing. They were relieved to hear him called up on it. Next coffee was nice and yes a few fuck words were used so no one was offended at my attack on it but he was afraid to open his mouth.
My friend and I went out back of the building sat on the grass right after I did that to him and we rolled around laughing, the looks from everyone were hilarious and we couldnt get over it. There is use of it and definitely over use where you can actually see brown shit spewing out their mouth. That's when it isn't nice one bit. But I don't mind peeps who use it at all where it fits.

 

I approach women for their looks but I only stick around if the mind is at the right place too.
beautiful people sometimes have ugly minds. Its hard to find the right balance of things!

 

My mom doesn't care if I swear around her. She swears like a sailor. But the funny thing is that my grandpa is 84 and he scolds my mom for swearing but probably wouldn't say anything if I swore. There is a slight double-standard with him that irritates her sometimes. I find it hilarious. She can tell him ten times that he should do something and he won't listen to her. Then I'll tell him the same thing once and he will say something like "You think so? Well, that's probably a good idea. I think I'll give it a try!" Pisses her off. :sunny:

 

I have to think I don't mind it because my mom swears like a sailor too. My dad was a sailor. I grew up knowing there is a place for it and school wasn't one of them.
My BF swears but not At me and he uses it where it fits. I am attracted to out spoken people rather then shy ones and usually out spoken includes some swearing here and there even if its not using the eff word. The word I don't like is the C word,,, there is no place for that I think and so someone who uses it in anger or in sex talk might send me walking. Don't know why, it's just ugly.

 

Sometimes I think being very beautiful could be a mind fuck in itself.
Being told most of your life how hot you are has got to warp your sense of self a bit.

And what about the girl thats so hot she seems practically unapproachable to most normal dudes?

I do think women have it hard though, practically forced to live up to society's expectations to paint their face just right, be slim and wear the right clothes, look young and sexy from age 13 to menopause.

Men face similar societal pressures but not nearly to the same degree IMO

 

I never bought into that make up thing, wore a bit when I was younger and now none unless a little when going out for an evening. I dress very casual, never a skirt kind of suit thing,,, yuk, polyester in yer ass,,,
Any guy attracted to me usually said it was because I am natural and don't slap paste on my face. It's expensive and I get some ladies might need it. My friend took two hours to have a shower and "put her face on" as she called it. Me, 15 mins to shower and ten to be out the door in jeans.
Can you imagine two hours you have to be up before going to a job every day?

 

:-/
Sorry I'm lost : ) I think it *is* worthwhile to spend lots of money on airfares if u think someone really is potentially perfect.

 

I agree with this, but man, I ended up maxing out my credit card a few years ago with that mentality..

 

You are among the rare ones then, (and kudos for that!) but I do expect a greater concentration of more natural women on a site like HF. :2thumbsup:

 

ovulation..

 

I'm one of those au natural types. I've never been into make up. I'll only wear it during photo shoots or on movie sets or for costumes if it's needed and then I'm happy to take it off at the end of the day. Make up kind of makes me feel like a totally different person and for the most part, I find make up ugly and can't fathom wearing it everyday. I have thought about experimenting with eye liner recently. Maybe go for a Margot Tenenbaum look. (i.e. )
Well, I got my hands on some eyeliner, let's just say, it was a disaster. Guess I'm not a make up person.

 

I was going to post a pic of me but site won't allow

 

why ? he he

 

Most women I know who piled it on look older then they should in their 50+ years. I think it sucks the life out of your skin after long term use. I don't want to look like that so I decided in my younger adult years to leave it for others to do.
We went to school from the mountain we lived on, over an hour trip each way, on a grey hound type bus. Nice seats and great ride, it was hired that way privately because regular school busses didnt come our way for our community. The bus driver had a mic so he would encourage us talk to him and use it so we could all hear him and sometimes would just ramble on it to keep his mind busy. He was an awesome guy and we got to know him as Crazy Man. Someone asked him once what he thought about make up. He said he knew a woman who used so much eye shadow that in her later years it was coming from inside the skin inside her eye lids and she had to have it scraped out every so often,,, THAT STUCK WITH ME!

 

I don't wear make up every day, but when I go out to someplace special, I ike to wear it minimally, and it only takes me 5 minutes to put it on....
I enjoy my femininity...No need to wear it excercising the dogs or anything like that, though.

 

You no want piciture of me?

 

I like that pic of Moonglow's pussy,,, kitty I mean, hahahahaha

 

Hahahaha...I had a thread once somewhere else about pussycat dolls, and boy, was that a hard one to maneuver around and remain serious and forthright...Not my fault these baby dolls were called that...and I mean baby dolls in sleepers and things.