What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

I am just going back over some of the posts, and I must of missed this little gem.

When you describe the threshold of orgasm this is also very similar to what it feels like for a man, there needs to be a certain amount of stimulation before we ejaculate, and I believe this is also the true for the women.
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I believe the longer it takes to have an orgasm the more intense that orgasm will be.

So when a women is begging for penetration don't give it to her, hold out longer and keep teasing her continuously to get her wetter and build the sexual tension up "like a rubber band being pulled back" and then eventually she will be very close to orgasm, the way you tell she is close is by the wet skin all over her body.

She'll look like she's been in a sauna for an hour.

When you hear her vaginal barrel start to draw air in or what some vulgarians refer to as "fanny fart" you're making good progress, it means the base of the vaginal barrel is "ballooning" this is what happens prior to orgasm, not sure how close but it must be close.

So really a man is relying on the women for feed back on when to enter her just prior to orgasm, when she is about to have the orgasm, enter her gently, and finish her off so to speak.

For those that have never experienced it its one hell of a ride.

If your a guy don't freak out when the vaginal barrel starts to contract around your penis, just go with it and enjoy the experience, you'll find it hard not to blow, because the pleasure is very intense and you'll be overcome with the stimulous that will be more than you can handle initially.

If you time it right you'll ejaculate just as she orgasms, which will send you through the roof !!

So not only will you feel this intense spasmodic contractions around your penis she'll feel your penis explode inside her and your penis will pulsate to the vaginal barrel contractions in sync !!!

The pleausure you will feel is beyond my capabilty to explain it in english.

From that point on its a weird "out of body experience", you'll feel connected as one, fused together, and reality will for a moment disappear, when you come back down or come out of this strange out of body experience, it will be incredibly quiet and you'll experience this feeling of euphoria, contentment, and love for your partner.

Its interesting that you said "blackout" because this must be what I experienced while she was orgasming with me.

I'm wondering if this is caused by the blood rush or natural opiates ?

 

I just read like the first 5 pages of this thing, and since most of it isn't actually women telling what their orgasms were about, I gave up and decided to post my own experience.


For me, I almost stop breathing. I use my vibrator (I've never orgasmed from sex) and since I have a hand on my labia, I can actually feel the muscles contracting in my vagina. I actually don't get the whole "relaxed" feeling until afterwards. During it, its almost like a sudden burst of electricity that starts in my vagina and spreads towards my feet and head. Its a very fast burst, then that feeling of pleasure lasts different lengths of time. During this pleasure, I actually make little jerks...like my whole body jerks, almost how a penis does when its cumming. Finally it all kind of subsides and I am just in a very relaxed and happy state.

I only experienced this for the first time a couple weeks ago. I invested in a good vibrator because I realized that since I'm on anti-depressants, it takes a lot more for me to orgasm, and I don't want to have to rely on a guy for that lol. It's really not a big deal to me if a guy can't make me orgasm....I still enjoy the foreplay and sex, and sometimes I can get close...but I've never crossed the threshold. It starts to bug me when guys get personally insulted when I don't orgasm. I actually like this thread, because I think its important for guys to understand the difference in female and male orgasm....and know that its not necessarily a reflection on them that the girl can't orgasm. That's not an excuse for the guy to not do his darndest to help her lol, but don't get bummed out...and inadvertantly make the girl feel guilty for not....that will only make her more self conscious the next time (and thus less likely to orgasm).

 

Interesting read, thanks for your contribution to this thread.

I have read that anti-depressants stop or inhibit you from having an orgasm.

I have also read they can't see any difference between people on anti-depressants and people taking a placebo.

I believe people get depressed for very good reasons, that may be caused for external reasons, I don't believe depression is caused by some disease, or rubbish like that.

I went through depression myself, so I got on a very good diet, cut out red meat, and many other things from what I have been eating for years.

I believe we are brainwashed into consuming crap everyday of our lives, that doesn't bring happiness it brings misery, one day I woke up and realised we are all part of what I believe is social engineering, where corporations are manipulating people for profit.

Some people fall through the cracks ...

If I were you I would say stuff these drugs I'm going to change my life and empower myself.

Realise that you alone have the power to affect change in your life and only by doing that can you regain your happiness and set your self on the road to empowerment and success.

You have choices, people choose to take a certain road, that may bring only unhappiness and misery.

No matter how miserable you feel, its only a "feeling" and feeling's can control what you do in your life and that may not be be something that will ultimately make you happy.

Get rid of things like drugs, smoking, drinking and gambling from your life, bottom line is they don't make you happy.

Good food is paramount to how you feel, find out what really good food is ( if you don't already know) and start eating food that will make you healthy.

Get your T.V set and throw it in the rubbish bin.

Biggest thing that made me depressed is T.V.

Also poor diet, lack of sleep (coffe causes insomnia) poor habits, lack of excercise.

So get out and start walking eveyday in a forest where its beautiful and the air is cleaner and the surroundings are wonderful and uplifting.

Eliminate people that want to drag you down becasue they don't want to be alone with their own misery.

People who don't feel good about themselves bag other people.

If guys get personally insulted well that is naive, silly and immature, real orgasm is very hard to achieve for whatever reason, everybody can be deluded into thinking its easy to achieve orgasm, when in fact its very hard to achieve orgasm.


It is allusive, it is very rare and vey hard to achieve, so don't go whipping yourself because you can't achieve orgasm at the drop of a hat.

Like anything nothing comes easy.

You may even realise one day that you are the only one that "really" had an orgasm, life can be like that.

Everybody could be putting on a charade and thinking they have to behave like this because they think everybody else is having "one" and I'm not, and if I don't bullshit, I'll be single out as weird or different.

Your description is lovely, I like those words "happy state" thats so cute.

I've often pondered the idea that men can also have an orgasm, or a more powerful high than most realise.

You might one day climb a high mountain and upon reaching the summit look out and suddenly and most shockinly realise things are not what they seem, and suddenly see everything for what it really is ....

When you get older you'll start to see your current reality in a new light, and you'll one day laugh at they way you used to perceive things.

Perception is everything.

 

Thank you for your response. I would have to respectfully disagree with your view on depression...at least in some cases. I believe that a lot of psychiatric illnesses are over diagnosed, but I do believe that depression is real. There is a huge difference between "feeling depressed" and being in a severe clinical depression. I have experienced the latter...where all I want to do is cry...where my mind runs at a million miles a minute and all I can do to keep from losing it is immerse myself in something like a tv-show (I would do this for 12 hours a day when I was in the depression...normally I don't even like tv). I was not on depression medication at the time. I had stopped taking it about 8 months before because I was trying to live a more "natural" life. It hit me before I had any chance to do something about it. I believe that depression is real in some people, and I think its even genetic. My mother had a severe depression at the same age I did...she ended up having to go to a psychiatric institute and receive electric shock therapy. My cousin also experienced the depression at my age. So, while I appreciate your positive feedback, I think it is dangerous to oversimplify things like this or make someone feel like the depression is their own fault (for being too lazy, not eating right, watching too much tv....). I have helped friends who suddenly enter a severe depression, the look on their faces is one of physical pain...it takes everything in you just to keep an objective view of reality. I have stayed up all night with these friends because they were scared of what they would do.....these friends are intelligent, ambitious, and healthy.

 

I also want to respectfully disagree with Ben on depression. It can be much, much more than "just feelings." And while in many instances, what you describe could work, all the empowerment in the world sometimes would still fail to help someone with depression.
The studies that look at antidepressants have a success rate with placebo of sometimes 1/3 or more. So lots of people really can recover without actual anti-depressants. Being active, changing diet, improving healthy habits all can also have a huge impact. But it's an awful insult, as well as a disservice to those who suffer from it, to say depression doesn't exist and can always be conquered by will. When it's a response to a situation, it could be a "situational depression." But the clinical term of depression can be something that will affect individuals even without some event causing it. Even with situational depressions, most people eventually get through it -- and some people can't. It's not a will-power issue, it's not a matter of feelings. And when people are suffering from it, it hurts them and those they love a great deal.

 

http://www.abc.net.au/science/articles/2008/02/27/2173959.htm

I despise these corporations all they think of is how they can make buck from people.

Who cares about people as long as a few of us have more money than we know what to do with that is all that matters.

Drug companies that push drugs that treat symptoms, not the root cause of problems, and really they don't even treat the symptoms in x amount of cases.

In fact they cause problems, very serious problems.

Showering doctors with gifts just so they can sell more drugs, if your selling cannabis its illegal, if your selling drugs its legal.

Throw your T.V sets away and start reading and getting out and meeting people and doing things like taking a walk along the beach on a beautiful day.

Good food, clean cloths, plenty of excercise, drop those useless drugs.

 

Anyway back on track your starting to depress me !!! he he he

 

So while I was away did any women experience the allusive orgasm ?

 

I couldnt' even begin to describe it. For me it's kind of like something opens up down there and I have an emptiness inside me that's quaking in a good way. Then again that doesn't fit either...I've asked guys to describe theirs out of curiosity and none of them have. Reminds me of the Seinfield episode where Elaine and Jerry are joking about that running tingling/tickling feeling.

 

okay so basically...
at first there is nothing. then eventually you start feeling a tickling sensation and it get's stronger and stronger and it carries on over and over then you can increase or slow down the pace of what you are doing depending on when you want to orgasm. then when you do you start doing it really fast until you can't control it anymore and the strong tickling sensation just flows right through your body and you can't do anything but put your head back and enjoy it while it lasts ! then it slows down and there are contractions in the vagina that go really fast at first then slow down. and they feel really good. after that you just feel really relaxed and you want to go to sleep.

 

If you having trouble describing it I can understand, very few have come forward and are able to explain it with any real potency.

 

I'll write you later when I'm more up to the task.

So tired tonight.

 

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All this info is great, its wonderful to get this information first hand.

I'm very intereseted to know about sexual dysfunction, what are the kinds of thoughts are going through a girl/womens mind whilst she is making love, and the best way of dealing with it.

This is not directed at you personally, I oftern wonder what I could do to improve my own situation.

Unfortunatley that experience I had long ago I have never been able to reproduce, despite my attemps at trying to reproduce it.

The worst thing for me is I think I know why.

Thank you for taking the time to reply and having the courage to write about something that is so sensitive.

 

Can I ask how long from start to finish and whether taking longer produces a better more intense orgasm ?

I know what you mean by "over the edge", which is kinda strange because its almost like one is trying to stop orgasm or ejaculation in our own mind/s.

And with enough stimulous over time "finally" it just happens.

Ok thank you kindly for adding to the thread.

 

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One minute ?

What happens if you keep going for say 2 hours ?

Just gentle stimulous over a long time ...

 

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What I can say is that you feel like trembling all over the body and a sense of fainting, the vagina keeps on contracting on and off, you have a very good sensation all over the body and you feel that your eyes are getting a bit convulsive, you want do bite something and want to scream your head out.