What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

Well, maybe we should all pitch in and buy a seismograph...then we could measure them more accurately......:H

 

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Come on girls, there surely must be one girl/women that has had a really intense orgasm, ask your girlfirends, search high and low, there has to be somebody surely, this is outrageous !!!

I'm only really after one that can give me more info on this phenomenon.

 

I've had very intense orgasms. I'm convinced women have better orgasms than men. Mmm.

 

Well, I guess I will never know for sure !

Still I think men are capable of having a much better high than they realise, ignorance and arrogance and perhaps lack of inteligence have a price I guess.

 

Still waiting for a lady that has had a really intense orgasm, there must be one some where ?

 

Sorry if I offended you Charise, I don't want to hurt or offend anybody, thats not what I want to achieve.

People might find this interesting.

http://www.oxytocin.org/oxytoc/love-science.html

 

Hello Ben.

First off, I have to say I am somewhat surprised at the lack of responses. Describing an orgasm in the way you requested is truly difficult, but, I'm up for the challenge...after all, what's more fun than an orgasm, trying to describe one should be fun too.

After 12 years together, my husband gives me incredibly intense orgasms every time I get off. He knows every sweet spot on my body, every trigger to trip and button to push. He edges me hard, sometimes for days at a time (we are in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship) which keeps me perpetually aroused. (He really enjoys that part of my submission). So, on the days that he decides to grant me release (orgasm), it is way beyond intense. My breathing gets heavier, but for me, slower, deeper, not more rapid. As I start to feel that edge, and it increases in intensity, I start to connect more fully with my Master. He stares into my eyes, and holds my gaze as my climax builds. Sometimes, the rest of our surroundings start to blur in my field of vision, everything but His eyes. He has found my rhythm, and matches it, then varies it, as he chooses, stretching out that phase immediately before the explosion/release of orgasm. That phase is intensely physically pleasurable...almost impossible to describe...like all these things rolled into one: 1.the physical sensation of releasing your urine after you've had to hold it too long; 2.the pleasure you get when your sooooo thirsty and hot, working outside on a summer's day, your mouth dry and dusty and you have that first long, cold drink of water; 3. Think of the sensation your mouth and brain felt eating the finest chocolate you've ever tasted.
Like I said, it's so hard to describe that physical feeling.

As my climax gets closer, my eyes close involuntarily, and usually, I see flashes of purple streaks of lightning. The feeling of the actual orgasm is almost like a bucket being filled slowly above your head...you anticipate what it will feel like if it was to spill on you, you get tense, nervous, excited...just then.......it spills onto your head, all at once, 5 gallons of cold water that shocks your body, makes you want to run away, but holds you in place like a magic thread, body eager to feel every last drop of that water, even as you shiver and shudder from the weight of it, the wetness, the shock of it, screams escaping your throat that you seem to hear from another place, not coming from inside yourself.

Afterwards, I feel like I'm floating. My pelvic floor muscles contract periodically, each one like an aftershock. I'm very relaxed, calm, very much in an endorphin-induced high.

Well, now that I'm freakishly aroused, sitting at my desk, I should end my post here. Hope this is a little of what you were looking for.

PS, I have many times built up a slick, heavy sweat, but not every time I cum.

 

:hurray: Oh wow what a pleasant surprise this morning !!!

This is exactly what I have been searching for !!

Too tired to respond properly this morning, when I get more time I would love to ask you some questions if you are happy about that ?

GB.

 

GB, glad I could make your day. Feel free to ask any questions you like. I'll be watching for 'em.

 

Oh, I know. And I'm going to be a real trooper, and co-operate in your research project.

I started having orgasms at around age 5-6. When i was that age....well, what a discovery.....I don't at all remember my first orgasm, since I was having them at such a young age...they seemed so simple to have and so natural.

From the time I was around 5, until I was about 12, I would orgasm either by rubbing the area over my clit directly or humping a pillow or the corner of the bed (oh, so good...) My orgasms at that age were simpler. That sweet, sex pleasure feeling would start to rise-then it would go up, up, up,,,like climbing a mountain....then it would get to the point where it was extremely intense, so strong that I couldn't possibly stand it-my legs would involuntarily clamp tightly together, my eyes would close tightly shut because the pleasure was so strong that I couldn't keep them open-I'd see stars and colors-and that god-awfully intense pleasure flooded my whole crotch area (and to an extent my whole body) and stayed that way for maybe 10 seconds-my breathing was very fast right before the pleasure reached orgasm-intensity-then when the orgasm started, the pleasure was so intense that I had to open my mouth and involuntarily groan because of it...or let out a long "ahhhhhh...." Then the sweetness in my crotch slowly diminished, my body loosened up, I started breathing heavy again, and I slowly started to relax....

When I went into puberty around 12, I started being much more horny (who didn't?) and having sexual fantasies (didn't really have them before). At this point I became much more aware of pleasure in my vagina. Now when my oragsm starts, that intense pleasure in my clit/crotch area suddenly shifts/shoots into my vagina-this would be the beginning of my first contraction-then my vagina rhtymically clamps shut and then releases-as it clamps shut, this huge amount of pleasure floods my vagina and belly, and makes me groan-I groan as it's clamping shut, and catch my breath as it's releasing-I groan in rhythm with my contractions, and after maybe 5 or six of them, I start to kind of sigh, as the pleasure starts to drift dwon some, and I feel a fluttering in my vagina rather than strong contractions....then I gradually catch my breath, and can finally open my eyes...then I'm pretty much beat....

 

The fundamental question for me is what makes the difference between a women being able to achieve orgasm and not being able to achieve orgasm ?

I have noticed some things with certain partners that were able to orgasm, that being - the light was off or - there was very little light in the room.

What the other reasons they were able to orgasm or not is beyond my understanding.

Even if a mans technique is very good one can still find it very difficult or impossible to get the women/girl to orgasm.

I feel that some women are able to relax and just " let go" !!!

What are you thinking or feeling prior at the threshhold of orgasm ?

I think its BS that some women are not able to experience orgasm, I think its something to do with the womens mind.

But then again, if a women has been traumaitised by rape or molestation I can well understand why they cannot or have trouble being able to relax whilst having sex.

But from a physiological point of view, I think women are mostly the same.


How good is your partners technique ?

How long do you spend making love from the time you entered bed to the point of orgasm ?

How much time does your partner spend on foreplay ?

What does he do to get you off ?

The foreplay may include times that your partner arouses you in any possible way prior to the you both being naked !

How long is it before your partner enters you ?

Whats happening with your breathing prior to orgasm ?

How fast is your heartbeating ?

How damp/moist or wet is your body (hair, face [top lip], neck, breasts, torso[back], labia, vaginal opeing, legs, feet) during orgasm ?

(If any of the these questions are too personal, don't answer them).

What is the reationship with both or your parents, especially your father ?

How much do you love your father, how would you descrbe your relationship with your father ?

How would you descripe your relationship with your mother ?

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What is your favorite color ?

 

It's when one writes that one appreciats the art of grammer and english, this is probably the hardest thing to describe, not only because it is personal and private but also putting your feelings and emotions into words can be so difficult.

Thanks for your imput (Charise), I'll respond to your post latter when I feel up to it and have more time to devote to your response.

Thanks,

GB.

P.S.
Women are such gentle and lovely creatures, and life can be so wonderful when your in love and the feeling is mutual.

 

Hmm, well that is very odd indeed ?

I was expecting a reply from "BellaTheBrat" unfortunately she has disappeared into dust ???

GB.

Have I been duped ? :dupe:

 

Well it's a damn shame I didn't get the answers to the questions that I asked "BellaTheBrat" not even any idea of why she wouldn't or couldn't ?

GB.

 

It's called "Real Life", GB...between my 40 hour per week job, raising my son, keeping my home, and being an obedient and adoring slave to my Master/husband....a girl gets busy, ya know?? :hysterica


You have not been duped, my dear...here are your answers.

The fundamental question for me is what makes the difference between a women being able to achieve orgasm and not being able to achieve orgasm ?
A woman MUST be able and willing to communicate exactly what does it for her...what types of touch, foreplay, sexual activity makes her toes curl. If her lover is not receptive to this communication...that lover does not deserve the gift of the woman's orgasm.

I have noticed some things with certain partners that were able to orgasm, that being - the light was off or - there was very little light in the room.
I prefer the lights on...I like to watch what my partner is doing to me...very erotic, and heightens sensation for me. I believe most women are not confident enough in their body-image...that's why they want the lights off.

What the other reasons they were able to orgasm or not is beyond my understanding.

Even if a mans technique is very good one can still find it very difficult or impossible to get the women/girl to orgasm.

I feel that some women are able to relax and just " let go" !!!

What are you thinking or feeling prior at the threshhold of orgasm ? Hmmm...not really sure how to answer this question, GB...it really depends on the circumstances...mostly I am finely tuned-in to the physical (and mental, sometimes) sensations my Master is giving me...not thinking...just feeling it.

I think its BS that some women are not able to experience orgasm, I think its something to do with the womens mind.

But then again, if a women has been traumaitised by rape or molestation I can well understand why they cannot or have trouble being able to relax whilst having sex.

But from a physiological point of view, I think women are mostly the same.


How good is your partners technique ? After 12 years of marriage...His technique has been perfected just for me.

How long do you spend making love from the time you entered bed to the point of orgasm ? Depends on how you define "making love". If by this term you mean intercourse...well, that could go on forever because I don't normally orgasm from penis/vagina penetration alone. If you mean the whole act of lovemaking, foreplay included...normally at least a few hours before I have my first orgasm of the night.

How much time does your partner spend on foreplay ? LOL, honestly, being in a 24/7 Master/slave relationship...foreplay never ends. Everything is eroticized...from waking Him every morning by rubbing His cock to washing the dishes (at which time He usually swats my backside with various kitchen utensils). But, I know that's not what you're asking here. We're odd with foreplay..very often, intercourse is foreplay for us...like, that might be one of the first things we do. He spends hours touching, licking, kissing, torturing and loving me.

What does he do to get you off ? My best orgasms are always from Him licking my clit...but He does many, many things to get me off...anal intercourse, toys, His fingers...we love it all.

The foreplay may include times that your partner arouses you in any possible way prior to the you both being naked !

How long is it before your partner enters you ? Sometimes He doesn't, LOL

Whats happening with your breathing prior to orgasm ? My breathing slows down, and is deeper.

How fast is your heartbeating ? It doesn't really speed up until after I've had multiple orgasms...like 5 in a row, then it feels like it will beat out of my chest.

How damp/moist or wet is your body (hair, face [top lip], neck, breasts, torso[back], labia, vaginal opeing, legs, feet) during orgasm ? Depends on the activity...but just an orgasm...the only thing that gets really wet is my vagina. I have to be really exerting myself a lot to work up a sweat.

(If any of the these questions are too personal, don't answer them).

What is the reationship with both or your parents, especially your father ? My relationship with my father was wonderful...while it lasted. I was daddy's girl. Sadly, he died, 26 years ago yesterday (1/17)...I was 12 years old. Losing him affected me deeply, and I've only really dealt with all the issues in just the past few years, with the help of my loving Hubby.

How much do you love your father, how would you descrbe your relationship with your father ? See the last question...

How would you descripe your relationship with your mother ? Well, it's better now that I'm all grown up. She lives next door to me, and she has helped me and my little family a lot. We are great friends, and enjoy each other's company very much. I love her deeply, and we have no issues.

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What is your favorite color ? Blue...it :guitar: and it's also my slave name.

 

OK thank you "BellaTheBrat", please except my humble apoligies for "ass"suming the worst !

I was almost on the verge on giving up my quest to find the allusive orgasm that most women crave but very few have experienced !

I have read your responses to my questions, and have gained new insight into some of the problems associated with what makes a women orgasm !!

It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship with your husband !

What's do you mean master/slave relationship ?

(is this something to do with what I saw on t.v regarding a way of life for some couples in the U.S.A ?)

What does it feel like for your husband penis ?

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=265511&page=10&pp=10

Maybe you could read my post and tell me if you have ever experienced anthing like this !

And again ....

Thank You "BellaTheBrat" for posting, its difficult to find somebody that can put their experiences to e-paper.

Hmm your a blue A Romantic !!

http://www.gagirl.com/quiz/colours.html

 

OK moving right along !!

OK there must be more women out there that have experienced "real" orgasm, what I would like is even more infromation about it and what makes the difference between just little orgasms and the really intense orgasms ( what defines a little orgasm and a really intense orgasm is the symptoms, for example I noticed on that night many years ago that we were both drenched in sweat which I cannot explain ?

Why does the body get wet like this without any real physical exertion ?

How is it possible that one could have the equivilent of cup of sweat on their back ?

Also Bella' triggered a memory for me ! Whilst we and my partner were having this orgasm, I noticed that I felt like I was strangely and incredibly fused together with her that we were somehow like "one in the same" very strange feeling ?

My penis felt like it was clasped by her vaginal barrel muscles, which freeaked me out a little at the time, that feeling of being trapped, so I just decided in my own mind to relax and go with it, her keegal muscles slowly clamped and strated to spasmodically contract oround my penis and the feeling was so intense and being overwhelmed by the pleasure. ( Guys that have ejaculated many times and are on there 3 or 4th ejaculation will know what I mean just on the edge of the "male orgasm" and the feeling of finally letting go of that ejaculate !!!) but it is very different from that in that you feel a closeness to your partner a fusion of your souls, that is how it was.

The other thing I noticed is time seem to disappear and I didn't feel the least bit physically tired or drowsy from a lack of sleep ?

Time just seem to disappear ...

That was one of the things I noticed when we came down from this intense orgasm, it was suddenly so quiet, like a storm had passed and i felt so content and incredibley relaxed, and the feeling I had for my partner was total trust and bonding.

GB.

 

its a feeling like no other, its all you can think about at that moment in time,nothing else matters except for the sheer ecstasy that is overwhelming your clit, its like dying for a second, its fucking great!

 

Well you may have had an real orgasm, without any detailed information i cannot satisfy my need to know whether this indeed is the real thing ?

I suspect that some women are claiming to have had orgasm, when in fact they may not have ?

My interest in womens orgasm stems from the desire to experience it again with my partner, if I can't find out why some women orgasm intensely I will never find out what I am doing wrong, or how I can improve on what I am doing now.

The good things is I think I am getting closer to getting my partner to orgasm !