ahh, if you don't believe christ is the earthly representation of god you aren't christian, that's pretty much the most stripped down definition....
if you are female I love you and wanna marry you if you are male.... I might just turn gay for you....
if you are christian you are christian you aren't "supposed" to be it, the fact that so many people view it as a default setting and nothing more is horrifying, the fact that people who represent christianity by saying "I'm christian" and know virtually nothing about the religion is the reason so many people who had been "christian" become trendy atheists..... I hate an absence of conviction, make a choice damnit.......
I know I fucking hate that I am very atheist but at the same time very slightly agnostic I believe fully in my beliefs but I know that what I believe isn't necessarily I remember back when I was christian by default, as soon as I started to actually think about it I was super agnostic and eventually it manifested into atheism