what is wronggg with me?

I'll hit on anyone that's female and not over weight.

 

yeah, but i dont see the point in going through that whole long process of getting to know people when i have perfectly good friends in NC.. which is why Im just gonna try to go back there. And if I dont, then I guess I will take ur advice.. except there arent any places I find cool around here

 

I once heard of this process or something called exogenisis. I guess it makes you more brass or something. Mike Oldfield did that.

 

My sober self is generally respectful, introspective, polite, and boring as all sin. Feed me a case of beer, though, and watch out: I'm a fucking tornado.

 

yea i felt the same way, but then i realized i wasn't going anywhere soon. By all means keep in touch with your friends in NC, but it doesn't hurt to build friendships in GA...you never know who you will meet that may help you in the future, i.e. dont burn bridges, build them(man, im rollin in cliches today )

o if there are any restuarant/pubs with live music acts that allow minors, they are usally good places. i have one near me that is apparently pretty big hotspot for Jazz in PA.

 

O_O i tend to attract guatamalans and/or anyone who likes asiansgross.

 

lindsey.guatamalans are attracted to anyone
i can be shy when i first meet someone but that's usually guys
if it's a chick i can talk up a storm and tend to get really into the moment
i can't help it.i used to be really shy but thankfully got over that!

 

well you're still quite. sometimes.

 

what do you mean = l

 

i mean you dont talk much.
i mean with other people.
with me. well

 

i think that human beings are crazy
no one is knowing how comfortable they will be with another person
that's why people are shy (you're welcome from capt. obvious)
it's all just weird, being "social" and what not
you sorta have to make yourself comfortable
and as long as you're comfortable with it
to hell with whatever anyone else thinks

 

that was well said.


i'm listening to hip hop. and liking it

 

i agree.
for me it depends on the person
and gender
but im teaching myself

 

why thank you =)

 

i don't know what does it for me.
it's more like "click"

 

I'm like that, too. All quiet and shy when I'm around people my own age. I don't have that same problem when I with people older or younger than me. It's a weird problem but I know it's just because I think that every person I talk to immediately hates me and is making negative judgements of me. It's something I'm working on and hopefully will get better at.

I hope you'll be able to be around large groups of people one day and not worry about it much. If not you could always try to talk to one person at a time and just ask really simple questions. Even if they're silly questions like 'What's your favorite movie/book/colour/etc etc..? I know once I'm able to actually talk to a person and hold the conversation for 5 minutes or so without it being too awkward then it's much easier for me to continue on talking to that person. Maybe you could try those things and see how it goes?

And like what Horace said, who cares what anyone else thinks? They're probably just as shy and nervous or whatever as you are. I think people tend to have a better time around each other when they notice how comfortable and relaxed the other is.

 

Then you have to deal with majority/minority rules...

Eh, why worry.