What REALLY makes a woman want to sleep with a man?

why did nobody say alcohol?

 

I usually just run my tongue along my eyebrows............... OK, OK, I'm just kidding.

 

I didn't say alcohol because the drug itself doesn't make a women want to sleep with a man.

Alcohol being involved doesn't give consent in of itself. The fact that it is used in many date rape scenarios should speak for itself.

 

Or money.

 

Do you mean the money we charge and if/if not we receive payment?

or

The money he may have they'll get us perks and luxuries?

 

Women can use alcohol as effectively as men to get what they want. It happens. In my view men see such encounters very differently than women, even if fundamentally they are the same

 

Just pick your female partner up in one part of the house & carry her into the bedroom & tell her to get her pants of as she's due for a bit of pleasuring.

 

Muscles don't hurt. The stuff that makes a girl wet are pretty deeply ingrained in her physiology. Very generally speaking...

Girls want big, hard, rough
Guys want small, soft, dainty

It's nice to have the gender roles very clearly defined. You want your counterpart's attributes to mesh with your own. Opposites attract, and the physical ones are very obvious.

Apart from that, all the stuff you hear about Alpha males is pretty relevant. Just being socially dominant. Being a leader. Being impressive. Try to be calm without being passive. It's a hard line to toe though.

 

Cocaine always worked for Hugh Hefner...

 

Nature.




And a nice smile

 

A kind decent man that cares and is free from bullshit and ego

 

hmm, i know most sexually active women have one of these around, but i didn't realize that this poor guy is actually what causes the woman to want to sleep with the bullshity ego douche.

 

ahahaha



True

 

True maybe for the under 40 year old. Take a few knocks from life and the last thing you will tolerate is the prick. Life is too short. Gimme the nice guy any day.

 

I guess in ten years I'll be the most popular guy around. But for now, 40 is a little out of my range. I'm thinking 21-35. I can't read minds, but I'm pretty sure several girls I've worked with over the years have developed feelings for me just by being around them. Not that I could ever test that, being married and all.

But I don't think I could EVER pick someone up at a bar. I'm a great long term friend. In 10 minutes bursts, I'm pretty quiet and boring. I've been a naturally quite (and shy) person my whole life. When I'm with my buddies, I'm ease up a little, and can talk to new people more, but I really have to be around someone for more than a night to really start to click and have ANYTHING to really add to a conversation.

Those of you who have read any of my other posts (and this one as well) will have a hard time believing I dont have much to say. haha. But the internet is my comfort zone. At a bar, I'm the quiet guy just sitting at a table with his buddies.

 

Whatever it is I don't have it. I guess the thing is modern women are absolutely horrible people who think they're so wonderful. Hey, I'm a product of modern women. They want a nice guy, don't end up with a nice guy. They want this, but take that. Really, horrible people who think they deserve everything. And it's funny, if a man dares say it (like I just did) they turn the tables and claim it's because I'm a horrible person. Hey, I just tell it like I see it!

 

if you're married, you can't be that terrible at picking up women.

this really isn't too far off (i wouldn't go so far as to call most women horrible people. although some certainly are). especially the part about how a bunch of people are probably going to come in and start attacking you for it.

 

It's true. As soon as holy woman suffers a bruise to her collective ego they start attacking me. Funny, if a woman insults all men she's a trailblazer if a man insults all women he's a sexist, loser pig. Hysterical. Really, anyone who doubts me should just attend college for a year and mingle with modern girls. They will see that they demand everything and insist on "nice guys, respectable guys, polite guys." but always end up with Mr. Football. Hey girls, don't blame me look in the mirrors. You wonder why men complain I mean look at how they act.

 

i'd say a combination of personal attraction and intelligence.
attitude is relevant too.