What would it take to get you to suck a cock?

Swinging wildly between two extremes with this. One moment I'm utterly repulsed with this idea (and long term I know I don't want this). But then I get to think about it and I get so horny thinking about it, and all it would probably take is "suck it."

 

I'm not trying to offend you, but it sounds more like your conscious mind is what is giving you the negative messages and maybe subconsciously you might??

 

No offense taken. The subconscious message is coming from my dreams. I've never had a positive homosexual dream.
I've never really had anything too much positive happen heterosexually in a dream either , but at least the goal has always been pleasant.

 

I'm not trying to sway your opinion one way or the other. Again, I'm not trying to offend you, but are you a homophobe? I think it's a fairly common thing for men to have homosexual dreams, but I think most of us have positive experiences in those dreams. That being said, if you are so adamantly against sucking cock then what are you doing in a bisexual discussion group???

 

In the next few posts I describe my ambivalence. Sometimes I couldn't care less about it. But sometimes it doesn't seem it would take much if anything. That's what I'm doing in a bisexual discussion group...trying to figure myself out!

 

As I said, I'm not trying to offend you and I missed the "Swinging wildly" post. Like you, many of us are experiencing those conflicting thoughts, feelings and emotions. Also like you, sometimes I get very aroused thinking about sucking a cock and other times I am repulsed by it. I don't understand what you meant by your statement "and long term I know I don't want this". Are you saying that you get aroused when you think about sucking cock, but you really don't want to suck a cock??? Is that where the confusion is coming from???

 

Not sure, but until I'm in a situation to suck an actual cock, I've been practicing with dildos. Feel like I need to work on overcoming the gag reflex. More concerned about that than cum, as I've tasted mine plenty

 

I've been a willing cock sucker for a very long time and enjoy sharing my oral skills with almost anyone.

 

My homosexual dreams have always been positive...hot even. But I have already had the experience, many times.

 

Just ask me and I’ll get my knees.

 

If it's a nice looking cock I would want to suck it. If my wife was part of a threesome I'd wait for a sign, because I am not sure how she would react. (She does not like oral, both give and receive; so not even sure a threesome is even possible.)

 

Actually, we just did it without words. We regularly had MMF threesomes with my wife and a friend of mine but it had been entirely us focusing on her. One time, I was fucking my wife with her sitting on my lap facing away from me and my friend was licking her clit. He reached up and started playing with my balls and when I pulled my cock out of my wife, he took it straight into his mouth. My wife watched it with fascination and her pussy just started gushing. From then on, whenever the three of us got together, my friend and I would suck on each other while she watched and it always made her super horny and wet. The first time I swallowed his cum, my wife was playing with herself and she had an instant orgasm.

I'll never forget the first time he sucked me and seeing her reaction. A whole new world opened up for me. I'm now divorced from the wife, but my friend and I still get together regularly for suck sessions and my friend has found that he likes to be fucked in the ass too, so we have a lot of fun even without her.

 

What it would take is pulling it out...or telling me to.

 

Sounds familiar.

 

Like many here, green light from my wife and a willing participant

 

Easy, a cock to suck, licking lips thinking about it.

 

All it would take is for a man to tell me he felt unwanted, I never want someone to feel like they aren't desirable or unwanted.

 

I suddenly feel unwanted

 

Hehe, you know I mean someone who feels unlovable, not a sneaky fellow prodding my lips with his pecker

 

Can't blame a guy for trying, especially with that sexy profile picture on my screen, lol