whats the best way of breaking up with some one??

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by drummer, Jan 20, 2006.

  1. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    If your breaking up with them why do you care if it hurts their feelings or not?
     
  2. babybud420

    babybud420 Member

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    some people care about others feelings
     
  3. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    Name 4.
     
  4. babybud420

    babybud420 Member

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    1. Me
    2. Apparently the person who posted this thread
    3. Grandma's [lol]
    4. not you

    how's that?? LMAO
     
  5. Micha

    Micha Now available in Verdana!

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    ooh oh me too.
     
  6. SunshineChild

    SunshineChild Mad Scientist

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    And me.

    Hippie at heart. :)
     
  7. fuzz_acid_flowers

    fuzz_acid_flowers Aqueou§ Transmi§§ion

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  8. SunshineChild

    SunshineChild Mad Scientist

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    Well more than 4 care.

    I've only had one girlfriend, and I've had her since August '05. I hope not to get into the situation where either one of us is stumped into how to break up. Even the slightest thing would hurt me. There's no easy way to it, I guess. But everyones different.
     
  9. Shotgun, get off my property i never want to see you again.

    Works well, but you might have problems with the police.
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    try the truth. Let them know why you're breaking up with them (unless it's something really cruel, like how they are in the sack... then you're obligated to make up some line about being too busy or somesuch)
     
  11. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    Not me? Of course I care about others feelings. My point is they are going to realize that they don't meet the person who is dumping them's standards. So what is the point of trying to lie to them? Lieing just makes it worse. I mean, they are going to know its a lie.

    Just be sincere and straight to the point "I don't want a relationship with you anymore". It'd make me feel better than somebody pulling some bullshit like "Its me, not you" or something.

    Actually I wonder if it would make a difference. I'd probably be upset either way.

    Also, I (especially in person) come off as cold sometimes, but I'm not. I'm in a pretty good mood right now though.
     
  12. lalalamort

    lalalamort Fucked up upstairs

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    woudnt know in my great experience i would tell them their fathers cock is bigger than theirs............................LOL didnt see that one cuming PUN........




    man i need booze
     
  13. Billie

    Billie Member

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    When i broke it off with my last boyfriend he was in hysterics and threatening to kill himself.. it was shit hard.. i felt guilty but those feelings just weren't there and it had to be done..
    Peace,
    Billie
     
  14. Micha

    Micha Now available in Verdana!

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    ahh i have this problem.
    but the thing with me is that we're not even OFFICIALLY dating and i don't wanna like completely break things off...plus he REALLY likes me
    but like...idunno.. i'm getting restless i suppose..
    and i'm one of those people who cannot hurt anyone's feelings..like ever. it sucks.

    but idunno. i'm a manipulator... i'll figure something out, i guess...
     
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