What's up with this girl?

You sound like my ex. Despite all the things you've said, I have a hard time believing that she is the sole reason things didn't work out. You seem very passive and even come off as a little emotionless sometimes. A passive person and a volatile one will never work out together because a volatile person needs someone who is as emotional as them. I could see why she might be trying to get a rise out of you. I'm not saying it's right, but you two just aren't a good fit. She needs to work on herself, and whether or not you want to believe this, you do as well if you want to find someone who will love and respect you. Respect yourself and assert yourself. Don't let anyone, much less a partner walk all over you.

 

It didn't actually end until a week ago but then again I saw her Sunday this just goes to show how somebody can make you fucking crazy

 

Actually after my last post it ended on thanksgiving see my other post "WTF is going on" for what happened

 

I'm a 21 year old female university student. I know when I say to a guy I need to study, I have tests, etc i'm usually telling the truth. I get get distracted... and he'd be a distraction.

I think she's just using you for the attention you give her. I can imagine you think very highly of her, as she probably seems so young and admiring. She likes the attention and nothing more, and sad to say but she's acting like you don't really mean much to her... which isn't fair at all because she obviously means something to you.

I'd be the smarter person if I were you and cut it off, it's not going to go anywhere I know that. Just by the sounds of her actions, it's a red signal for me. Also, and totally your choice - find a purty lady around your age who can make you happy. Maturity is a big thing, and I know you may like the girly hehes and the younger-women lifestyle as a gf - with it comes to immaturity, it's like wanting to rip her pig tails out. That isn't to say all 20 year olds are immature though. Just the age she's at she's probably thinking about getting her groove on with a random fling here and there as a college girl, while men at your age are usually thinking about marriage. Just sayin'.

EDIT: Saw the outcome. Sorry dude. It's better this way anyway, she was a bitch who walked all over you. If they don't need you, it's okay. You don't live for other people. Only yourself <3

 

You should read the rest of what I wrote on "WTF is going on" and let me know what you think of the situation-Thanks for your input!

 

/facepalm

Hey, this thread again. And look what happened.
Everything that everybody in this thread said was gonna happen.

 

This whole thing is the definition of facepalm.

 

A sexually attractive young woman has a lot of power to manipulate men and because they are young they have no concept of the effects and consequences of that manipulation. Also, often they are conflicted between the types of men they desire and the the types they intellectually know would be decent and treat them well.

The problem is her age. There is ONLY one advantage a 21 y.o. woman has over a 30 y.o. one and that is her skin. 21 year olds usually have vibrant complexions, firm breasts and asses and thighs free of cellulite. Paying for that skin with your soul is no bargain. You would be better off either; jerking off to memories of sex you had with young girls, going to strip clubs or hiring an escort girl. Find a woman your age without kids and she will be alot less likely to play as many games, she will be more interesting and probably be a lot better in bed.