When a friend admits that he is Bi Curious?

My friend and I talked about it when we were discussing cheating with other women. While it would have been nice, It wasn't worth the time, money and general hastle, unless it was basicly handed to you. My friend was afraid to cheat, because he was worried that he wouldn't perform well and the word would get out . Women seem to know who is a good fuck or not. When I was a bartender, that theory was proven positive . At 75 I could still get women for sex, but Im not allowed to do anything with women. Wife couldn't care if I sucked cock with my friend because there are no concequences. We do it, it's over, we get along as usual and feel better for it. It just doesn't happen as much as we would both like.

 

I was that supposedly “straight” friend recently and it’s ended up with me fully accepting my bisexuality, now thinking there’s a good chance I’m actually gay and fucking like rabbits with my first boyfriend at age 36. Don’t waste time

 

reminds me of how a lot of men go through life bi curious but don't end up doing anything about it for a long time and then regret they didn't start sooner when they finally do make the leap

 

I can appreciate what it took for such a friend to tell me that he was curious about what it was like to have sex with a guy. I've sat and listened to what they had to say, listening to the questions they had and, oddly I felt, sure that I knew the answers to them... which I did but I had friends who didn't need to know that I knew about that. Many were extremely nervous because they understood that outing themselves to me could be a problem, but I appreciated the fact that they trusted me with their secret; many, wow, I was surprised they didn't cum in their pants because as they talked, they were sporting erections which added to their discomfort. Some came right out and said that they were curious, and they heard that I could help them with that so... when could I help them?

They said that you shouldn't fuck your friends, but I was learning that if you couldn't have sex with your friends, who could you have sex with? If a curious guy came to me and was in need of, um, some help, do I turn them down? Act like I didn't know what they were talking about or, worse, act like I'm a homophobe? But if nothing else, I'd sit with them and listen and try to answer their questions while debating with myself on whether or not I would have sex with them if they asked. In the younger days, the answer to that question would always be yes but in the adult phase of things, yeah, I'd learned some stuff about pleading the 5th (and let's leave it at that).

 

I've never had a friend admit anything like that to me. If the right friend did, I would definitely accept the blow job offer and insist on returning the favor.