When do you tell your son he was circumcised?

you are assuming a foreskin is as useless as an umbilical cord, that is the main fallacy in your argument

what if it was a women's clitoris/labia/ or an arm or leg, all parts that we are meant to have are there for a reason, if there wasn't an advantage to having a foreskin then we wouldn't have evolved to have them

it wasn't till porno films became common, then when men started to equite that with normalcy women then jumped into doing it

 

When I grew up in the ‘30s and ‘40s most American women were shaving their leg and pit hair, and this was long before there was very much porno available. Any other ideas or explanations?

I especially like a woman who has enough self-confidence to buck standards and not shave. Granted that really hairy female legs aren’t too attractive, but a little bleach will work wonders.

 

I totally accept and love the look and feel of my circumcised penis. And so do the women I have been with.

 

I freely admit that there are people with some very odd preferences in this wide world .... and the rest of us are able to accept you.

We just don't like you representing yourself as a sex therapist! That sucks big time to put it in words that even you should be able to comprehend .... oops ... sorry ... understand.

Love and kisses!

 

i would tell him when we were having the sex talk i guess.

 

Check out the books on sex - many are written by lay sex therapists. Would you like to get instruction in sexual procedures from someone who is a good lover with detailed knowledge of the fireld, or from a nebbish with a PhD or MA in sex education-related fields who is a lousy lover and has no personal experience they can add to their advice?

Advising on sexual matters is not like performing surgery. Most of the advice given falls in a few specific areas, and since there are few resources covering these areas, and the persons seeking the advice are embarrassed to seek it other than anonymously on the internet, it serves a valuable purpose. And if the person seeking advice has a medical or psychiatric problem, I always refer them to a doctor or psychiatrist.

 

Of course there are many "lay therapists" spreading their information wildly around …. some for profit (big bucks in ‘self-help’ sex books) … some because it fills some psychological need of theirs … countless motivations. Most of them don’t know their ass from left field, mixed metaphorically speaking) and do more harm than good.

Personal experience is fleeting, ephemeral, and often mis-recalled. I wouldn’t consider getting my legal advice from a lay-lawyer base on his/her personal experience (jail-house lawyer I believe is the term).

Give all the sexual advice that you wish, just please don’t represent yourself as a sex-therapist, credentialed or otherwise. That gives undeserved weight to your statements and can easily mislead maturing young minds.

Especially be careful when you yourself know that you are biased or have an agenda.



And please don't start hitting on me because you're falling in love with my picture!