When I'm angry, I don't mince words. In fact, I throw them with all my might. Any impact is an impact when I'm angry.
When I get angry I usually go off by myself and chill out. Then I can look at what pissed me off more objectively.
Thing is, I don't really get all that angry at people. I just inflict anger by saying a bunch of stuff so I don't bottle it in and let it consume me. I move on from anger very quickly. I don't yell at people, cry, or cuss them out. I just say whatever buttons I want to press out of anger and either stay and talk or walk away from the situation. When I am frustrated and/or annoyed I tend to be misunderstood oftentimes to be angry when I'm not.
Hmm... This used to be a somewhat of a complex for me as a kid, now that I think of it. People were always mistaking my objections and telling me that I just have a bad temper because I'm redheaded or something lame like that. I felt chastised for being aggressive when assertive was the recommended dose for good girls my age.
See, I should really try this but I have a hard time shutting myself off to people and trying to be alone when I'm angry. I stick around to watch a fight.
I don't get angry enough for a long enough period to know what I do...except punch holes in things. But that's very rare. I usually just get annoyed and answer people with really short answers and try not to talk.
When I get pissed I simply turn around and do my damndst to piss off the guy or girl who pissed me off. And if its a guy and that doesn't work, or if its a guy and words just aren't good enough, I deck 'em
yeah, people do mistake the two quite a lot, disagreement and hate, assertiveness and aggression, bullshitting with cruelty. pfft. and being a natural redhead means they ALWAYS mistake the two.