Where Should I Go To Flirt With Men?

I didn't get what he meant by getting dick? What's that supposed to mean? Does he mean wanting get a cock into the pussy? I didn't get what he meant.

 

Do you mean by dicks "idiots"? I dont suppose you meant penis?

 

It is the use of the word in two ways.

Getting laid you could use the word dick for penis. When someone is being an idiot or jerk you can also use dick to describe the behaviour.

 

I'm going to disagree with this to a point. Maybe not exclusively "looks" but attraction is so important. Hearts and lives have been destroyed because a person was not physically attracted to their partner, but did not realize it because they were blinded by how perfect everything else was. It matters. That said, physical attraction is not an easy thing to pin down. It literally is different for every person, and it's a combination of things.

I have never been attracted to the Brad Pitt cookie-cutter Ken doll that Hollywood likes to shove down our throats (*snerk*). I remember when Magic Mike came out and Channing Tatum was the thing of the moment, and I was like... I don't get it, am I gay?

This is not to say that personality does not matter. For instance, if I DID like Brad Pitt types and Brad Pitt himself walked up to me and started talking and I got a "this dude is bad news" vibe, I would run screaming in the other direction. I have learned some hard lessons in the past, and I am definitely wary of a certain set of qualities that no pretty face in the world can disguise.


EDIT: Sorry, OP. Did not mean to derail. I wish I could help, but I'm in the same boat. I despise clubs and bars. Meetup.com is a good way to get out and do things that you like with people in your area that share the same interests and that might be a better option than something like online dating. I have signed up for a whole slew of clubs and I haven't gone yet, but eventually I'm going to check them out. I need to get out of the house, myself...

 

It's on topic. And good points. It's a combi of personality and physical attraction and it often differs per person.

 

Well, yeah, if you cannot stand to look at someone based on their looks....there will never be a chance for anything....lol
although, I never felt this way just based on a person's looks....It is what some do and how they are that makes me not be able to stand the sight of them....
i was speaking of real love and not just physcial attraction.....there is all kinds of real love...the kind you have for different people....
I was physically attracted to someone once.....a few years ago....he was gorgeous but he was very ugly inside, so the looks could not hold him for me....is kind of what i was trying to say...it is nice if there is both outside and inner beauty, but over the two, i will take the inner beauty every time.

Smelling someone is also very important.....It can either turn you away or drive you crazy I hear....and that is not based on looks.

 

Lol, yeah inner beauty, as long as he has a fat wallet

 

Is that how you are? ^

 

I always wonder about this, because I can't smell... Do the pheromones still reach my brain and react or is it the smell registering itself that does the trick? Am I doomed to wander the earth forever searching because I can't smell my soulmate?

For instance, if I couldn't taste and I took an aspirin, I would still feel the effects. But if I couldn't taste and I ate a sweet potato (which I hate), I probably wouldn't feel nauseous like I normally would... Things I wish I had asked in college...

 

you can't smell? oh, I am sorry....nothing?

 

If she met hip forumers in real life, that might be a good thing

 

^ You don't like the patchoulli?

Doesn't a lack of smell affect your sense of taste as well? I thought people who couldn't smell anything also couldn't taste a lot. Just wondering!

 

i would imagine her sense of taste would be different than it would be if she could smell, but assuming she's never been able to smell, she probably doesn't know the difference.

of course, she could probably provide a better answer than i can.

 

I imagined you saying that with a de niro accent

 

why do you believe in love? No couple keep being in love with each other till they die. Am I wrong? I tell you its until you marry, after you marry, the love for her will wear thin day by day.

 

That's me.....

you do not have to agree or like it or anything......

i am sure there is someone out there willing to give you a one night stand.....

I have seen poeple married and in their 80's and 90's still in love with each other as much as ever....I have seen it.....I know it exists......boredom with one person.....? It depends on what you both agree to sign up for......and what rules two people have together. I know it exists.....real love....I just know it....and will not settle for less ever.

Good luck to you!

 

Does a girl also have to be likeable in at least one way?

 

the 8 items or less lane at the grocery store

always full of single men...no woman ever buys less than 8 items and all married men have giant grocery list that their wife wrote

 

I always go to the self-check out and actually had someone post on missed connections for me...but that's not what I'm looking for! I'm really looking for a venue a type of environment where I can flirt with lots of people in a short period of time...just for fun. I'm not looking for someone to have sex with, definitely not looking for anyone who even remotely reminds me of Brad Pitt. I'm not even necessarily looking for dates. I just wanna test my in-real-life flirting skills and see what happens.

So far the best place for me to flirt is in my neighborhood and the grocery store and sometimes at work, cause those the are the only places I usually go. But there's usually not enough people there for me to flirt with. I have flirted at some home school events too.