I'm almost in love with all the female librarians I know, so I'm not surprised male librarians are also super attractive and probably also super cool, I just haven't met any of them. I believe we can sense "scent" even if we can't smell it. Scent is directly related to the brain, so even if your sinuses(or whatever) blocks your perception of most scents I believe your brain will still recognize them. I don't think "love at first sight" is the same thing as recognition of pheromones. By the way I've noticed that when you have more than one child and you're over 30 it's not as acceptable to randomly flirt with people, especially women as it used to be, so I don't really flirt with women anymore except when they're my friends already.
i would suggest going to baseball fields...they are not just for children...all ages have leagues...... I know a baseball league here in one of the age groups and I am in love with all of them...they are healthy, being outside and playing in the fresh air....and all very cool....and I have never met a kinder group.....
How about us men? Where should we go to flirt with women? Sadly, if a man flirts with a woman, especially at random, he is seen as some sort of pig. I would have a much easier time approaching women at random if there wasn't this stigma that all men are sexist pigs after only one thing because they show an interest in you.
EVER. It was one of the things my lactose-intolerant, cheese-loving ex adored about me, lol... It also helps that I find farts hilarious. If that's not perfect girlfriend material, I don't know what is. HOW THE FUCK AM I STILL SINGLE?? Oh yeah, because love stinks.
Because if a guy can get your rocks off in under an hour of first meeting him (in my case 5 minutes) then love isn't real anyway
Does that really hold men back from flirting with women? Here's the thing...I think if you just say hi first, if they "allow" you to talk more then you flirt, or if they make eye contact...that's your signal. I don't think of men as pigs when they flirt with me. Maybe it's the south but I've not seen very many men hold back from flirting, except really shy guys and they usually eventually get the nerve to say something.
I'm not playing dumb. Most men I see don't seem to care if you're freaked out by them or not...but I guess you're right that I've read about guys being like that. It's just not something I notice in real life.