Hmm..So who am I? Adds KC to his hates list ... Nah was just going on personal deductions re people I'd known about here.Maybe people in little villages etc become isolated by choice , but not in other circumstances..?
i mean, maybe these people aren't isolated. i'm all: the more the merrier. maybe they're all: i have enough people. fuck off.
I'm just going on what I've been told by some of em directly. Altho I had one friend who was adamant he didn't want other friends. But in reality , he just couldn't relate to people regardless.He was just a damaged ( and fairly horrible ) person.
I personally have a very difficult time making friends in real life. I have trust issues and a broken heart and I'm like a fucked up wounded puppy. It's much easier to make friends with people when there are screens and text between us.
I think everyone knows I cant stand Frieden. I think there's a couple others that I kinda dont like, but nothing major.
Starts typing a BSR type comment.. Anyway , sorry to hear that.. Seriously tho , it deps on the person. I'll give someone some leeway if they're "damaged". But if they just wanna diss someone / be an idiot to me because of their past problems , its hard to be friends with em.Even if I'm *trying* to be. There has to be good will on all sides.U know? And" net only" friends can never substitute looking to make RL meeting up friends IMO
Aw, you don't have to feel sorry for me, I do just fine. I have a few friends that have been around for a long time and I'll be much more sociable in the summer when my far off friends come home from college. I'm looking forward to that, I really really need a night out with just the girls.
I don't trust the people at work. I've met one girl through work I wanted to hang out with outside of work and she ended up quitting and we never see each other anymore. But when you do a certain thing that's sort of illegal, you have to really be careful who you let around. And it really makes it hard when most of them have kids because our house isn't exactly a great place to entertain a child. I have lots of toys, yes, but there's so much clutter because this is Daniel's parents' old house, I'd feel just so scared to let kids play in here. There's no telling what they could get into.
i can't say there's anyone on here that i really hate...sometimes people annoy me and i've gotten into a good argument or two with some people, but never really disliked anyone. that one girl who always posted how ugly she was really annoyed me tho...can't remember her name? and those people who have to make separate threads on the play-by-plays of their lives gets rather old...but to say i *hate* them....? naw
Deps what sort of illegal maybe? I used to find work friendships could be fickle. But they also make some of the strongest ones eventually. I'm into feng shui.CLutter can be bad.( I've been *terrible* for it) Maybe u need to clear it , and sort of release the past? ( spkg from experiences btw..)
I agree. I no longer have tons of friends, but the ones I do have, I have very deep and meaniningful relationships with. I met my BFF freshman year in high school on cheer.