Who Brought Up Wife Sharing In Your Relationship?

My husband brought it up as pillow talk and he also arranged the threesome

 

If it wasn't a 501 mi drive, I'd be begging you to see your farm! I do know my way around machinery.

 

That makes sense. When he did, what were your thoughts, and then how quick were you respond to the idea? Had you any thoughts of enjoying another guy prior to his bringing it up?

 

It sounds like there's an interesting story behind that. Care to share?

 

It was just pillow talk for probably 2 or more years that slowly edged toward becoming something we’d seriously consider, then eventually a reality. All that time and all those discussions prepped me (maybe both of us) to where I think it made it acceptable. No I never had thoughts of enjoying another guy. Even this was really about the two of us

 

In all honesty, shoot me I guess, but I would only consider FFM.
My wife had girl/girl sex several times in college, she liked it but always preferred a man and could never consider romance with a woman. It is very hot hearing her talk about it.
It would not bother me to see her having sex with a woman, but I have no desire to see her fucking another man. Not even a passing consideration.

 

Fascinating! That's like my idea of the 'storybook' way for it to go down. Have a great new year of love and fun.

 

I get you, and I believe that's more of a mainstream attitude. Me, I'd have no qualms regarding my wife with another lady but to my mind an MFM makes a lot more sense than an FMF.

 

For me it is more FFM than FMF...if you get it.
The F in the middle is my wife. I would have passing contact with the woman, it would be more about the two of us pleasing her.

 

I’m not sure about storybook but it was fun!

 

So you did MMF?

 

Yes

 

Nice! So, a one-time thing, occasionally still, or regularly?

Do you see any issues or potential issues with it?

 

One time thing. We haven’t had any issues, we still get hot talking about it, but I can see how people would have all kinds of issues

 

It was pretty much a mutual thing that we both needed !

 

Sweet. How much do you both still need it?

 

A lot!

 

So cool! You're an inspiration and I'm happy for you.

 

Your husband engaged with the guy?
Or was it more about him being a spectator or they both engaged you at the same time?
How much was in your mind worrying about future jealousy or afraid to look like your enjoying him engaging you too much etc?
Sorry for all of the questions, this is fascinating to me.

 

No worries at all on the questions! My husband did not engage with the other guy. They both engaged with me the whole time except for a few seconds switching position

I didn’t think about future jealousy at all. My husband is the least jealous person I know and we had talked about it quite a bit so I just went with it ;-)