Why are dudes INSECURE when it comes to drinking liqour?

Read my above post.

I drink wine coolers, I suggest trying them, they are pretty good.

 

i know. i enjoyed it so much when my dad would insist on driving my girlie little miata all over the place just because he like fast little convertables.

 

lol, i got this shit last night when i was drinking coors light. my boys like "thats a faggot drink. it tastes like water"

 

and to answer your question...

people drink harder shit and call people pussies for drinking the fruity tasting drinks because its harder to drink the shit that tastes like ass. if its hard to do it, then they must be cooler because they can handle it while some people cant drink on that shit without puking.

 

Miata's are sweet cars! I don't care what label you put on anything, if I like it thats the end of the story.

Hell yea I'd take a pink miata out to an autocross

Say hello to my little car

 

With that logic why not break out the meth and play russian roullette.

 

nice. i have a saturn i adore.

 

i rather have a glass of wine, then a wine cooler - i've had wine coolers before, they taste like crap

i dont' care if you drink wine coolers, i dont' care what anyone drinks haha. i just find it wicked funny to see people in bars get worked up over it (note: not saying anyone here does, but i do it on purpose to rile people up when i go out, its quite funny to get people pissed off abotu such silly things )

 

No, its not OK for you to do that, period. It doesn't matter what your motives are, if you walk up to me and say I'm drinking a pussy drink, I'm gonna call you the asshole that you are. It doesn't matter if you walk up with 20 buddies who all pat eachother on the ass after they remind themselves how superior they are because they can drink deer piss and still stand up.... your just a bunch of assholes.

Even if you do it within your group, your still asserting that false "manly" image... essentially turning everything into a cock measuring contest.

 

It's not cause you're a guy that you're tougher anyway. You're just built bigger and stronger (well, most of the time) than women, but as far as liquor goes... if a guy doesn't like hard liquor it doesn't make him a pussy... how simplistic is it to assume the contrary... besides who the fuck cares if a guy isn't a manly tough monster, I personally am really turned off by such guys. I definitely think if a man has an issue with seeming tough they have no self-confidence whatsoever and maybe they're worried about their little dick or something. The same guy who loves his hard liquor may be the most tranquil, adorable dude and next to him a "faggot" drink a gin-tonic may fuck up your face if you dare make fun of him. I personally am atypical when it comes to drinking. I always get these obscure beers/ales all girls hate... or weird shit like Absynthe (well here that is) or fancy French wine... you're never gonna see me drink Bud light like 90% of the girls I know who actually do drink beer or as far as liquor goes... I never order shit like vodka-cranberry or martinis or anything "typical". I will empty out a bottle of rum and I am the only girl I know aside from my mother and
sister who doesn't go "eww" with whisky... not mixed with coke. But... so what? You know? How does it make me a more or less interesting person? I do believe that what you drink (and eat) says a lot about who you are... in some cases... but not all of them.

Btw Sparks is the shit. Ooh am I being a typical girl now?

 

whatever man, i'm gonna keep on doing it - because i don't do it with random people at a random bar - they are people i go to school with, a military school at that. i'll be called an asshole and i'll continue ot laugh my ass off at the responses i get - while i sip on my pink and delcious drink

 

some people have no sense of the silly.

 

geez you guys are fighting over drinks. it's sad.

 

enjoy the silly, penny. embrace the silly.

 

i'm not fighting

i'm a masshole :tongue:

 

you silly masstard.

 

"Even if you do it within your group, your still asserting that false "manly" image."

See my point?

I'm not trying to make this personal, I'm trying to show the bigger picture.

You may or may not believe what you say, but in saying it you are propogating the idea. Put in that context - why do you say it in the first place?

I understand the humor, I understand why you do it, I understand why me myself USED to do it... but we all must understand that by continuing views that take away from what being a man truly is, you are doing a disservice to those who may not know the difference.

Its little things like this, that are "acceptable" that help to build the very caustic american male mentality.

Its as simple as deciding to make a change for the better.

 

it's not asserting it, in my opinion, it's making fun of it.

 

thats not something i see as better though. my big picture is'nt your big picture

by proclaiming a that i'm pushign a false manly image, you have a true male image. but thats not my idea.

 

In that context...

Its exactly the same as a white guy saying "whats up ******!" to a black guy... even if both understand the context, they are still drawing that seperation and continuing the stereotype.