Why are girls so fucked (extremely long)

I think its funny you can sit behind a computer and say whatever you want because you know none of the people can harm you but if you was in person you wouldn't say half the shit to the person's face.

 

Dont ever grab a woman like that. There is no excuse for it, no matter what your "reason" for it, was. And she was 15, for goodness sake. How can you expect an 15 year old to act a certain way while drunk. You should know this. As someone who has been physically, sexually abused and verbally by almost all of my exes . One for 2 1/2 years, I know what to look for as warning signs of someone who could become seriously abusive, and you exhibited that, by your controlling attitude, and the physical use u exhibited with your hand. You need to reavaluate the way you treat women.

 

Its not like Tom was flaming someone. And obviously you dont go to jail and be like People who use violence are retarded! But were not in prison.

 

Good Points in thread:

1. Never grab or hit any girl period. man your real tough girl tries to walk away which is her right and you stop her, the only exception to this is if a girl had a lethal weapon, then only slap a hoe

2. shes 15 no alcohol for her duh...

3. Bros before hoes- if your friends have legit reasons for you to dump her which they do kick her to the curb you are young lot more girls out there.

4. Is the expression you lay down with dogs you get fleas popped into my mind. so your friends are scumbags and losers, so chances are you are a scumbag or a loser. get with a better crowd man.

and last even though you are probably mad all these people are ganging up on you, they are trying to help you because the care dont attack them

 

Dunno man, Ive had a friend of mine attack me because she was drunk as fuck and screaming at a bouncer of a pub to let her in, he asked me to take her away before he called the shades so I asked her a few times then she went spastic and started hitting and pushing me, had to grab her arms to stop and literally drag her away from there...thats a bit different though

 

^^^ya a bit different.

 

I was out of it a few weeks ago and was convinced I lived in the opposite direction to what I do. My friend was trying his best to get me home safely, but then I became tearful because of a recent break-up and just wanted to get home so I started walking in the wring direction. He grabbed my arm and wouldn't let me go and even though I was shouting at him, I couldn't lose his grip.

I know he meant well and wanted to get me home safely, but being grabbed like that made it worse for me.

 

Yeah it didnt help things in my situation either I got barred from that pub for the night because of her acting like a retard...he barred me!?

I was underage at the time anyway...I looked scummy as fuck too. It was halloween, didnt have a costume but I was wearing a dirty blue hoody covereed in holes, trackies and fake blood all over my face

She calmed down after a bit and we went and got stoned instead :sifone:

 

pipe down boy. this post wasn't necessary. in fact, i think Tom would say to someone's face that he doesn't believe in violence. it's probably more likely that you wouldn't say the quote above to Tom's face

and Tom, i never got the impression from stinkfoot's posts that he was saying a victim could be blamed for physical violence against them. i don't really get what you two disagree about.

 

For real I say wants on my mind to anyone. Most people won't say anything back because they don't want violence but I down for whatever

 

Lol for some reason I read "...But if you was in prison you wouldnt say that shit" lulz.

One Exodus, Im pretty sure Chronis Tom wouldnt be very scared of Captain Canabis, or even Stinkfoot. I mean hes not saying trash about them hes saying Violence is not the key.. Wich makes your post make no sense because obviously Tom wouldnt go looking for a fight?..

 

Well what he's saying are fighting words around here

 

I do not think you've correctly judge Tom here. I strongly believe that the fact that domestic violence resonates with him to where he's expressing himself with this strength and conviction says something very positive about him that you cannot say about so very many other people. Instead of attacking him and throwing our own veiled insults we could appreciate the message that he does have and as the cool people most will aspire to be that we should only encourage that he express his excellent message with a bit more measure of diplomacy.

While I do think you hit the nail on the head here I think you could have directed some parts of this post to yourself! T'is okay though because I've posted things that were unnecessary as well. Looks like we have quite a group started... "People Occasionally Posting Unnecessary Shit" (POPUS). Are you bringing refreshments to the next meeting?

I get the feeling Tom has some guts as well. He does not mince words. I find the bluntness to be a bit refreshing... like a breath of cold clean air after spending time choking down the PC pollution. The first issue for me is generally to help keep the discussion friendly to outsiders who might want to join in. Personal attacks create a hostile environment and drive away people who otherwise may have something useful to add. The second one is a challenge to help folks in general to realize that resorting to such things in a debate draws attention from the message to the messenger.

 

I haven't read a single post since I snappeed yesterday except for a bit of stinks... but I will point something out...

My name is Tom Adshead.... You can find it in many ways through the things I post, including my email address.... Where I live is just as public... I do not hide behind a made up name, and I do not hide behind anonymous posts....

What I say... I am more then happy to back up.

You want to find cowards? Look to those who hide behind false names and talk about how tough they are as they tell stories about beating women, children, animals or others that are less able then themselves.

 

Okay now that I have went through and read this I would like to point some other things out.

Out of everyone on this board, I in general have more respect for what stinkfoot says then anyone.

In no way does this mean I would ever agree that in any way shape of form that words are ANY excuse to become physical. That is a cowards excuse.

I say that from the point of someone who has a severe anger problem, and has before, (and likely will again) ended up in court on numerous assault charges precisely because I have zero problems facing either courts, police or the fucking assholes of the world who think they can abuse women, children, animals or those less able,and backing up my words.

As for what those words mean. I thought they were quite clear. But for the slow witted, I will explain them.

In general violence is wrong. However, when dealing with someone who thinks it is right, especially to those less able then themselves... It is not only right, but it is necessary.

Words may be used to try to educate someone as to why they shouldn't act like CC has said he does, but when those words fail... people like me step up, fix the problem and then go to jail for it.

Let's be really clear here... I don't live in the same world as most of you. Simply because I do not accept a lot of what I consider your fallacies.

If you disagree with me, thats fine, lots of people do. I don't get violent with them, I don't threaten them. I may tell them to fuck off depending on what it is over, but in no way does violence come into it.

However, if you feel violence in is acceptable, especially against those whom are less able then you... then FUCK YEAH... I will play in your world ANY DAY.

As for the 'people' like OneExodus, notice that he is totally anonymous here.

 

violence does solve problems, but only if someone starts it and YOU finish it. no need to start beef with anybody

 

Everybody? No... Then some? FUCK YES

Once again, not all...

 

I'm not anonymous. My name is Devon Warthen of Hannibal Missouri. I'm 18 years old. My email is gtcrupi@yahoo.com. If you want my cell phone number or my address I'm more than happy to give it to you

 

Well, you aren't anonymous anymore if that is true.

Do I want your cell? Nope...

 

If you want to talk to me send me a private message because I'm getting in trouble for posting on this board.