Why are men obsessed by big genitalia?

I'm not hung up in sizes, but I would like to ask you girls something; If a man in bed is really good with his hands and kisses you and makes you feel good all over, does it really matter that the penis isn't all that big?

 

sofa king... size is just the biggest mind fuck. get over it! actiually, i was 6 month ago with a guy who had a not so big one. he really took care of me a long time, a that was what i needed at the time, then i fucked me, and actually because we had to word a bit harder, it turned out to give me even more pleasure, because we built up something really nice, on a longer period of time.
actually, if the friction is very tight, you tend to become a bit lazy in bed. and that's one thing i DONT like with guys. i like them active and generous and horny and not only well equiped.

 

Where did you get this information? I guess I'm doing good, then. I do agree, however, that the size of the credit card is the only road to 'success' in terms of getting laid with many women. Everything else is just bragging.

 

As a rule, women have a very poor sense of size perception in their vagina and almost no length perception at all.
(unless it reaches the cervix)

Very very intense perception of friction, heat, throbbing, pulsing, etc.
But not size.

 

Yea but isnt it the same how some guys would only date girls with big tits. They dont really make sex any better, and neither does the length of a guys penis apparently, but people just have the idea that bigger is better.

 

i'm going to be Very honest here, ok ?! i prefer big cock's but only because they look better ( well not all big cocks are beautiful... ok some of them are really ugly, so this statement sucks forget it )
and guys who have big cocks are usually proud of it, they are very comfortable with their bodies and they take good care of themselves, shave and so on. so it's more about being confident about yourself than size itself.

i once had a one night stand with a guy who had a small cock and i could feel how nervous he was, he was trying so hard to please me - he did everything! with his toungue, hands, dick - i'm telling you, he was trying so hard!
it was so stupid - i didn't care about his size, i'm sure he would be great in bed if he took some time to enjoy himself

so it's all about the attitude

 

I honestly dont know of men who only date women with big tits (what an odd deciding factor) but I think if you had to make a parallel it has to be the vagina and its size.

A man most definately can feel how deep he is and generally he can sense vagina width fairly well too.
Woman do have a keen sense for about the first two or three inches in.. then after that its definately very senstive but in the way internal organs are sensitive.
Sometimes they say its 'non-localised' nerve sensation.

Interestingly, the head of a mans penis (the sex gland) is also like this in that if blinded, a man could not specifically tell you where a pin was pricking it (dont try this at home!)
but,
He will DEFINATELY know something is pricking that area and it hurts.
Mens testicles are the same way... they are extremely sensitive and for example if kicked in the balls its an overwhelming 'nonlocalised' type pain.
Hence the whole body crumples up and some guys feel like throwing up.

But yeah, women really have very little sense of depth, and im especially talking about during the act of intercourse here.
... I fully understand that many women here will insist they do but Im being totally honest when I say you could have your boyfriend test this and you will be surprised yourself.
(but many woman here know this is true already).

Without going right off into another topic I should say there are many men who talk about how 'the tighter the better' and it does seem to be an American phenom.
(as with the huge boob obsession).
A few years ago someone looked into this and concluded it might be that many American men were circumcised.
The gland (the sex gland) eventually develops a thick 'film' of Keratin or to say becomes 'calloused'.
now keeping in mind almost all of a mans surface sensation is the gland and the soft skin underneath it (gone entirely in this case).
So,
The 'long story short' is that the researchers concluded these men, having much less 'surface feeling' desire more 'squeezing' or 'pinching' sensations.
Hence a thin and 'tight' vagina is considered more pleasureable to them.

Anyways, I have to tell you Ive been with women who were enormous down there and one in particular who was absolutely miniature but here comes the big twist on it all,
Men, in particular during the real 'in and out' of intercourse dont put their whole length in anyways!
Think about that for a while.
Yes, I realise some do sometimes but think of anytime (men and women both) you are in the middle of it.
He is usually going in an out with maybe half his length.

dont believe it - film yourselves if your daring enough.


Sure, I do understand that different people have different things they are turned on or into.
Im just speaking to the general rules and principles of the everyday mechanics and physiology.

 

Oi! I just realized, I'm not! Sorry to remove myself from the test group. Must be my genetics, or maybe blood type. I'll be glad to join the sugar water bunch thooo! Das, yrev das....

 

{steam come out of ears} Why the HELL can't people get this right? it's not called the "sex gland." Please note the definitions and diferentiation is spelling below:

Gland: an organ in an animal's body that synthesizes a substance for release such as hormones, often into the bloodstream (endocrine gland) or into cavities inside the body or its outer surface (exocrine gland).

Glans: (as in "Glans Penis") the sensitive erectile tip of the penis. It is also commonly referred to as the head of the penis, although this is not the proper medical terminology.

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The question should not be "why are men obsessed by big genitalia?" but rather, why aren't women obsessed by big genitalia?

 

I personally am not obsessed with larger genitalia. never have been. never got other men's obsession with big boobs, I've always preferred the smaller perkier variety

 

if it's just for one night
i would like the girl to have a big booty like buffie the body
but if i'm goin out with the girl i would like it to be a nice sized booty

 

Maybe because the phrase "Hey bitch, you're too loose!" isn't NEARLY as common as a phrase such as "mrrandom has a small cock*/*mrrandom is lousy in bed* etc.

Anyone else agree? lol
Ya' can't have women insulting men in such ways, then other women turning around and asking "why are men preoccupied with the size of their genitalia?" lol.

Guys, same concept applys to you as well!

 

Never get mad.. just get even!.

 

I don't think that men are any more obsessed with large genatalia than some women are.


Having said that I would love to meet a woman with a really large protruding clit when aroused. :drool:

 

If a woman is is looking for a relationship, and there are two guys that she really likes, I think of it like this:

 

If all else is equal, bet on the guy with the bigger dick.

 

don't know why that is...i actually like smaller men...haha...but my BF is actually quite endowed...but anyways...he likes small petite girls...not big boobs, but or anything else larger...so i don't think it's all men...nor all women...

 

my girl has an average (tho very firm) butt, her titties is about hand size and she's just perfect!

The only thing big on her is her cheeks! I love big cheeks, haha...

I don't think this stereotype is as correct as many think it is... usually it only fits those who think it's correct...

 

I like large breasts but not huge lips (pussy).