proportionality, symmetry, fitness level, lean fairly low body fat % (healthy though, not freakishly low), well shaped muscle, nice skin... breast size is secondary and isn't a big deal if they are proportional, perkiness counts and a nice illusion can be created with properly developed pectoral muscles and a tight vacuuous midsection. Regarding, genital size in a woman, i don't really care, but there has to be something there, if it was so thin that it was just like any hole will do, there is no mystery and something unhealthy going on. On the flip side super huge clits are a turn off. A really nice ass can make up for alot! All in all I say its almost entirely a cultural/social ideology, Perhaps large genitalia signifies a stronger capacity to reproduce....who knows, are the penises and vulvas of the world getting smaller or larger, do larger genitalia correlate with more enjoyable sex or greater potency?
This is so boring not all men are interested in big genitalia, me for instance I am that type more interested in variety. Big boobs aren't bad but they aren't the end all either. One thing I notice that never seems to be discussed in here is women and sex. It is constantly men should do this men should do that but in my experience only 1 in 4 of the girls I have given me the proper attention or really joined in properly. I think we should discuss while girls who think they are pretty are so crap at sex I feel probably because they know no matter what they will still be getting it.
Let me start by saying I've got a 12 inch penis when erect my cock is just huge but I hate it women get excited when they see it I can tell in their eyes there just thinking about sucking and wanking by big cock but when it gets to fucking most of their pussies just can't take the pain and we stop. They either give me a blowie or i have a wank and cum up their arse I know it sounds weird but i love it. So big cocks ain't all that.
Also to add to that, I think girls have it easy. Girls can be worried about there boobs not being the right size, but it is visually apperent to everyone (the size, that is) whereas guys are afraid that their willy is too small and nooone will no untill it really matters. So I think thats the only differce there. As for big boobs, I heard it bilogically and subcontiously represents a womens rear-end; makes us crazy.
I believe the whole size thing has little, if anything, to do with socio-culture. As with anything sexual everything ultimately boils down to the simple animal instinct to procreate the species. As with most species there is a order of dominance when it comes to mating. Some animals attract a make by colour display, others by extraordinary dance routines, but a very high proportion use sizes of various parts of their anatomy to express their suitability as a mate - such as the deer family, where the males display the size of their antlers. Male camels have inflateable dulaps to express their fertility. In any mammals, the size of the testes are directly in proportion to how often they mate - so those who select a mate for life, mating only during the mating season have the smallest testes, whereas those that will mate at every opportunity will have much larger ones. You may consider that such rules may apply to mere animals, but not to humans, being far more intelligentally advanced than the lesser species but when it boils down to it we are what we are - just another form of instinct driven animal life, no matter how much we may conciously try to keep those instincts under control. Although we may well know the scientific truth that sperm count etc bears no reflection on penis size, many males continue to be instinctively driven to make believe that they are a better choice for a higher level of fertility because they have a larger penis. The same sort of thing can apply to breast & hip size in the female form. These can be considered as being the most appropriate build for carrying & feeding children. This is by no way intended as being a sexist post, but simply a demonstration of how those basest of animal instincts, of which we may even be conciously unaware drive our every move when it comes to our individual personal preferences. It might even be interesting to see if a ratio scale has been researched somewhere of penis size to IQ, so as to see if evolution has changed decreased the penis size accordingly to intelligence. Incidentally, as a point of interest - Humans have the largest penises, both in absolute terms & proportionately of any other primate, so anyone who claims to have a penis the size of a gorilla is really saying that it is a very small one.
First of all I'd just like to say I'm not so shallow that I wouldn't date a girl who has no tits or ass. It's not a necessity for girls to have to have tits as a lot of women can look great without tits. The major thing is how good a girl looks & how her personality is. If she aint got a good attitude or face, why the fuck does it matter if her tits or ass is super huge?
I don't like girls who have no ass (anorexic style). Aside from that, I couldn't give a fuck if the girl was flat chested or had small pussy lips. All I really care about is personality and whether or not she's "pretty" (nice face, etc..). It also helps if she lets me put it in her butt...
I happen to have a larger inner labia that most girls. I don't find it sexy at all; It is actually unappealing to me. So, I think that size doesn't matter.. It is all about your confidence level and your attitude about yourself (as far as girls are concerned). I am guessing that guys are the same. A guy with a smaller penis is obiviously going to be more aware of himself and be more self concious just because of the assumption that 'size matters'. It is all about being comfortable in your own skin. and what you can do with what you got.
Has little to do with heterosexuality - lots to do with others of the same gender. Men admire other men's big tools, ladies appreciate the full bosoms and flat abdomens of other women. What do most men know about the range in size of vulvae. Porn shows the biggies, same with women understanding the differences in dorks. You think all these ads for a bigger peter are to impress the 3 or 4 gals in a man's life? Or a $2000.00 per boob 'enhancement?' Fool yourself boys, the women are way ahead of us in understanding the phenomenon.