why are men so confusing?

lol so true.

although in general I like women who are at least not passive. you have to meet me in the middle at least.

 

RIGHT?

Just act like a regular, interested, open human being. Coy doesn't do it for me. Cockteasing doesn't do it either.

 

I agree. Just being open and being yourself eliminates so much confusion on both sides. Games suck.

 

men are confusing but if you work your way around it, then you have it. I'd say get close to him first, then he'll start talkin

 

ew. HAHAHAH. sorry. ahem.

 

See I would take that as disinterest. I'm just no good at this stuff.

 

I don't blame you for thinking that. It's disguised interest, it's what it is. That's why it's creepy.

Sort of like a guy who asks a girl about her career while staring at her boobs. Jeez! Why not just say, "I find you attractive."

 

well, he might not find her attractive. maybe he just likes boobs..

 

damnit, good thing I'm married. I'd hate to play these damn games.

 

REP+

 

confusing? were simple minded creatures

 

huh??

 

its like a pat on the back good job type thing

 

oh ok. I rock

 

yeh dude!!

 

I hate those generalizations. I have different, complex needs. Getting a blow job being only one of them.

 

well, still, most men aren't nearly as complicated as women want to make them out to be.

 

i wouldnt say im complex but blowjobs are a definite need.

 

I can see that. I think the women who think "men are complicated" are the ones who expect men to be uni-dimensional and play some kind of gender role consistently. Of course, everything that is actual is going to be complicated next to a simplistic idea.

 

Maybe we should be what the movies make us out to be.