Why Do Guys Do That?

girls get mad at me if i keep talking to them and dont hit on them. if i dont sleep with them within a week ill never hear from them again. its like every other scenario with women, damned if you do, damned if you dont.

 

a bunch of double standards

you people disgust me. I mean, really, if a guy was named "i love sex" would you think there were no thoughts in his head?

females can like sex too...............jackasses

 

well i think most guys just want to reproduce its natural /... just watch out for the nasty dudes

 

girls can like sex just fine. There's nothing wrong with that. But bitching because guys want to have sex with you when you act so sexual is wrong.

 

wow please please don't take offense to this but if I were you and wanted to be respected for my mind as opposed to my body I would not have sex with people who I wasn't seriously involved with-especially at 17. respect yourself no one else is going to respect your body and mind unless you do first.

 

I am an equal opportunist this way. I don't think men or women should sleep around. it amazes me how easily people let others into their beds.

 

I used to get approached by guys all the time also. But then I was given the most valuable piece of advice ever. "If you don't look or act available, then people will assume you aren't." Guess what, it works.

i_love_sex -- Dont wear skimpy clothing (if you do). Leave parts of your body to the imagination. Stop choosing sexy online names, such as i_love_sex. That right there is going to prompt guys to talk to you about nothing BUT sex. And stop sleeping with men to feel loved, you're only going to wind up pregnant, diseased, or hating yourself.

If you really want to feel loved, hug your parents and/or your pets.

 

Do people really not say hello to you unless they're hoping to fuck you? I really doubt that. You're probably exagerating.

People like to have sex. Even women. Sometimes friends will want to have sex with each other. Often it's not reciprocal. Learning how to not let that destroy a friendship is imporant, if you are a reasonably attractive person who likes to have friends of the oposite sex. Being upset about natural desires doesn't help much.

I recently told a friend of mine that I'm attracted to her. It's not the only reason that I talk to her. In fact, our friendship formed while she had a long term boyfriend that I never expected her to dump. But I developed serious attraction to her. So what am I suposed to do? Not tell her? Effectively lie to her through ommision as she confides her sexual frustration in me? No, I am honest. But unfortunately she couldn't deal with it. We're not nearly as close any more. She feels all uncomfortable around me now. But I haven't changed. I haven't become less trustworthy, or less understanding, or somehow more ominous. So I'll turn the question back on you. Why are women like that?

 

Either way, if someone sleeps with alot of people, it means that they sleep with alot of people. point blank. In your eyes, you might note that they are different from you but to say that they are stupid or don't "have a thought in their head" is your own personal spin. People think that they can tell alot about a person from one or two things and that's not true. Not saying that you, lynsey, do that but that is what I was objecting to.