why do guys wanna give girls anal?

I agree, it's not complex. Guys love anal because of the tightness, as I and many others have said on this forum.

 

For me it´s very simple, unless both really want it, we´d better leave it. But analsex is so fantastic that I think I will never be able to stop. Luckily my girlfriend have the same opinion. We basically tries everything within reason at least once. Then we know at least. But to apply pressure on the other part is totally unacceptable.

 

I like to play out "what-if" scenarios in my life. I ask, "what if I was gay" and have anal sex with the neighbor.

 

I feel you, it's only good when the other person is into it, I can't enjoy myself knowing I am taking advantage of a person who is not into it or is in pain. I have anal with girls who weren't into it and it's wasn't nearly as good as having it with a girl that loves anal. But if she is in pain, it's a no, no for sure, only a sadistic monster would fuck their girl in the ass knowing that it's hurting them, and not in a good way.

 

i am gonna quote Mick Blue (an Austrian porn star): " I dont know why so many men are fascinated by anal sex. Really, it doesnt feel extraordinary, i think it has to do something with the mind. The only time when you feel something when fucking a woman into her ass is when it isnt cleaned properly... its a nice warm feeling. In my 7th movie or so i was fucking this chick into her as - for some reason it really felt good this time. Well, i was soon to discover why... we didnt use the room for filming again."

This is the guy:

Anal is something nasty to do, but it really needs a lot of preparation. On top of that, once a woman is used to anal, it isnt that much fun anymore.

 

That's why there are such things as opinions. Guys wouldn't be begging women to put it in their asses if it didn't feel great. Look at how many women on here talk about how how their man wants to try anal with them etc... I have fucked my girl in the ass a ton of times, and it still feels excellent. Nice and tight, but the pussy feels great too, but in a different way. I personally feel anal and vaginal are two different things not to be compared. No body compared chicken to beef, they are both meat, but they are completely different, and everybody has their preferences.

I have fucked my girl in her ass when she was not clean, and we stopped immediately. I don't know about you, but shit is not sexy, that butt has to be clean to enjoy. Anal does need lots of preparation to enjoy, I will agree, but for those who like it, it's worth it.

Of course it's something in the mind that makes us like it. It's something in the mind that makes us like pretty faces and big tits and asses. There is no reason why we should appreciate pretty women more than homely women, but no one would disagree, they bust a nut 10x harder with a fine ass girl than a not so great looking girl, unless emotions like love are involved. Love conquers all. But for pure enjoyment of sex, attractive women are more desirable, and this is completely mental, orgasms are completely mental, that's why paralyzed people can still orgasm.

Anal is popular because it feels great for both women and men. Ask women who enjoy anal orgasms, they are more powerful. Ask most guys if the butt feels tigher and most would agree.

 

for those women who like it. personally i have met many women that didnt enjoy anal... i have no doubt there are women that love anal (i know a few), but i am seriously guessing its the minority of women out there. Naturally, in a forum such as this, you will have a different ratio, but i am seriously suggesting women here dont represent the average women out there.

the butt is interesting and fun to fuck - with the right woman. and i found it indeed very interesting that a porn star who has fucked several hundred women doesnt understand why men are into anal that much. Well, they guy has more experience than most men, so i will simply take his word for it.

 

This is just sooo right! But my experience, at least with my girlfriend, is that she gets much stronger orgasms from analsex. It´s tighter for me and it feels a bit dirty too. But I would never apply pressure if the girl dont want it.

 

Simple answer...

Stick your finger into your vagina.

Now stick your finger up your anus.

Disregarding how it may have felt to you vagina & to your anus, consider how different it felt around your finger. That, afer all, is all the man is likely to be concerned with (you finger, of course, being representative of his penis).

 

EXACTLY! Experimentation at work. Any lady can see by doing this simple test why guys love that tight ass.

 

I never put it up a girls behind, I tried once but she started to cry. They cry a lot, the last time I tried to kiss a girl she started to cry. I don't even bother trying to get any, but ya sometimes they really like a finger up there. It's gross, I'd rather give them a DMT cleaning before well........therapy.

 

Yeah, women need to be prepared for anal, usually, and so don't just jump through the rear entrance. Give her some advance warning so she can go and poop, then grab some lube. People should know that it's NOT a good idea to go from there and then back into the pussy (or mouth, for that matter) because there are all sorts of germs in fecal matter that can cause infections.

Personally, I never had a special desire for anal, except when one girlfriend always asked me for it. And that's the biggest turn on of all, pleasing her, isn't it? There's nothing better -- absolutely nothing -- than a woman's vagina when it comes to physical pleasure.

 

I will say this, tho -- anal is novel and an interesting change of pace. The butt hole is actually very sensitive and can be a source of eroticism. I like to lightly play with my ladyfriend's "back door" during regular sex, not especially putting my whole finger way up there, but just a small tip of the finger to add to her sensation.

 

There isn't a germ problem if they use a mild acidic solution, such as a DMT tea. The only reason that the vagina is good at fighting infections is acid, unless it's an infection resistant to low PH....and those burn from what I hear.

 

That's not entirely true. The acid in a woman vagina is a by product of lactobacilli which is a probiotic. This natural flora produces hydrogen peroxide that kills bacteria and keeps the vagina clean. While the acid may have minor disinfecting properties, it's the hydrogen peroxide mainly that kills the bacteria.

I don't understand why a woman would need a powerful psychedelic like DMT (di-methyltryptamine) to clean her ass? DMT is for spiritual purposes and healing, not for anal sex! I personally have used DMT in the form of ayahuasca for my own spiritual reasons, but one would not need DMT to clean the ass out.

While I will admit that the purge from DMT is quite cleansing, I don't think you would want to have anal sex with a girl while she is tripping on DMT. DMT is one of the most powerful psychedelics in the world, the famous psychonaut Terrence McKenna said comparing DMT to LSD is like comparing heroine to aspirin. DMT is a very powerful substance and I don't see how it would have any applications for sex.

If a girl wants to flush herself out for anal there are TONS of better ways of doing this than using DMT, like an enema and some good anti-bacterial soap.

 

If im honest its probably a case of bragging rights with the shallow ones and in some others it could be a fetish for them, or they are possibly hiding their true sexuality makes you wonder though doesnt it.

 

Anal sex is not about homosexuality. That's like saying getting your dick sucked is gay, because a guy can suck your dick too. Yes it's true you can fuck a woman or a man in the ass, you can also get your dick sucked by a man or a woman so it falls under the same category as anal.

I agree though, anal is a fetish of mine.

 

Anal is no fetish of mine, though many men do like it. The arse is an exit to me, not an entrance.

 

Don't knock it until you try it.

The mouth is not meant for a penis, it's mean to consume food and fluids, yet many men enjoy getting their dicks sucked. If I applied your logic, of only using sex parts for sex, sex would be pretty boring indeed.

No oral for men or women. No titty sucking, because breasts are to feed babies. No titty fucking. No anal, no fingering, no hand jobs, no nothing. We would all be having Amish sex.

The only two things on your body specifically meant for sex are the genitals.

Think about that. That's why in the bible, anything besides penis to vagina contact is considered a sin. Technically anything besides genital to genital contact is against the function of your anatomy.

We are sentient beings, and we decide what we will do with our minds and bodies.

 

He said the arse is an exit for him. He didnt continue to say the mouth is not for oral sex, the hands are not for hand jobs etc so really you created that 'logic' yourself.