Why do some ladies love spanking, and how does it feel like?

I still don't know who spanked her the first time. I think it was her dad. Maybe others. She doesn't say much but she's a lot more open about getting spanked. So now it's bare hands, not restrained but over my knee or standing up and leaning against a wall. Restrained using hands or a paddle or a switch. She doesn't care for a whip but I use it on her sometimes. The switch we both like and it leaves nice marks. She gets a crop once in a while. When she takes that she gets it on her bottom, her pussy and her thighs. I often gag her for that and also the switch. The thighs hurt. So does the pussy. The sex always come after her spanking. Oddly enough, she doesn't care for being slapped during penetration of any kind. And no face slapping. That's an entirely different thing. She is thinking of taking a public spanking but it's hard to find a place and she's not sure she wants it from a stranger.

 

Public spanking is hot. It’s like a drug though. Once you do it, you get riskier and riskier.

 

I'd love to spank someone in public but a real spanking. I've attended two Fetlife events and both gave and received. But the underwear had to stay on....what little was worn and obviously it was quite easy to see pretty much everything. I'd prefer what we do in private to be the same in public. Or at least in front of people watching. Hard to find places though.

 

The first time he spanked me in public was in a grocery store. He swatted me twice over my jeans and he said out loud, “ wait until we get home”. Some people were truly shocked, but it was because of that, it really turned me on. Then he started spanking me in motels with the curtains slightly ajar. Then sometimes in a car.

 

Yes, we've done it in a hotel room with the windows open. We both liked that. I want her bare bottomed though. At the public ones I went to, the ones getting spanked were nearly bottomless. I was too and I had my underwear pulled right off to the side and held while I took it. Some men got erections during their spanking. I had a half erection that was unfortunately very visible but lost it during my spanking. One of the women I spanked was quite wet before I started on her but I recall she had been watching for a while. How was the spanking he gave you when you got home?

 

I am naked when I get spanked. No other way anymore. And it seems like he doesn’t care who sees.

 

I’m an older guy who would spank that ass

 

And how would you do that??

 

I would take you over my knee and smack down on that ass till it stings

 

Welcome!! ;-)

 

i like my bal sac and cock head spanked

 

I like getting a spanking - and it needs to hurt in order for me to be happy with it, but up to a certain point. I don't want to get bruises and I don't like strokes that are too hard - because it turns me off. I don't like the pain but the whole experience - submisstion (mine), dominance (his), taking my panties down, getting into position, embarassment of it all, and a certain amount of pain - just enough for my bottom to be pink and hot. No visible marks or bruises. I get wet and sex follows - and I also like when he spanks and penetrates me in turns.

 

I also always get spanking on the bare - most often completely naked. This makes me more vulnerable, embarassed and in control. I like to be spanked fast and firm.
So it's the combination of shame, pain and sexual arousal that makes spanking so addictive to me. If my spanker wants to punish me more, he often inserts something in my anus - like a ginger root, freshly peeled, a butt plug, sometimes his finger or a rectal thermometer. He ususally spanks me with a belt, hand, and also a riding crop, a leather paddle or a flogger.

 

I have never been spanked, but desperately want to be. I get wet daydreaming about how it will happen and feel.

 

I have never been spanked, but so desperately want to be. I don’t want to be spanked until there are blisters or bruises, just a very hot, very red bottom that will hurt for a while. I want to be spanked over the knee, panties off. A firm hand, hairbrush and or paddle applied to my waiting bottom sounds heavenly. I want my spanker to be firm with me, telling me when and how he wants me to pull my panties down. If he wants me to lay across a bed or arm of a couch I will. Would I like sex to be a part of this? Heck yes! But maybe the first few times could be hard spanking only. Then I would love to have long foreplay (I can give as good as I get) and deep, hot sex until we both explode. I have never had annal sex but have been very curious about it for as long as I can remember. I’m getting wet just thinking about all of this!
My husband (in name only for the last 26 years) has no desire to entertain such “antics” or fulfill any of my desires. So I am left to try to please myself and hope that someday I will find someone who has the same passion and desire.

 

It's not easy to find someone that will spank you if you can't get it at home but it's certainly possible. And it may not involve sex, although it's often sexual in nature. And if you're submissive, anal of some type will be done to you. Spanking and submission is very prevalent so don't give up. And you're not alone getting wet just thinking or talking about it.