Why do some women play with their clits while being fucked ?

Your experience is very real. I always see that my wife orgasms before me. Initially she starts playing with her clit. She will do it for a good 10-15 minutes, and then ask me to take over. I will continue for another 5 minutes until she orgasms. It is the best part of my satisfaction.

 

Well put, SM.

And you could have added the fact that only the first 1 or 2 inches of the vagina is actually sensitive, hence the female interest and fascination with "being penetrated" as in all the "romance" books. And the comparison with the glans was quite good. (FYI, the top of the 'head' is usually numb, the frenulum underneath is the goodie. But you probably already knew that.)

Well done.

 

force her orgasm of course

 

Increased stimulation!

 

@oldguynurse

you mention the he top of the head is numb and the frenulum is where the sensitivity is
Maybe for some. My entire head is sensitive

 

Alot of women do it during anal sex. I think it help them relax the muscles to take a bigger cock in their ass

My wife does it because she knows i love watching her touch herself.

 

Maybe I’m just lucky. The women that I’ve had PIV sex with has never used additional stimulation to achieve orgasms. Not one! They all had strictly vaginal orgasms. My wife is very multi orgasmic, without any additional stimulation. I know once or twice either I have tried it, or I’ve placed her hand down there, but she immediately pulls hers, or my hand away. Even during anal, neither one of us goes anywhere near her clit, and she orgasms with ease. It is not that I am some Don Juan with a huge cock. I am just your average sized guy that had been blessed with partners in the past, and my wife, that doesn’t require more stimulation than just PIV/PIA sex to have multiple orgasms.
The only place that my wife touches herself during sex is her breasts, which I love. Even when we’re fooling around with her dildo, and I go down on her, she pushes me away. She has said that as excited as she is, her clit is just too sensitive. She says that she has never, and I mean NEVER masturbated in her six decades on this earth. I blame her extremely religious mother.” Good girls don’t do that!” Whatever………. Thankfully, her mother doesn’t know the bad things that her good girl did with me.
I’m definitely not a woman, so I can give no expert opinion. But I think porn has a lot to do with it. Guys like watching A porn star vigorously, rubbing her clit….. and that gets them off. JMHO

 

Yeah thats rare. I mean even 50% would be rare. Batting 1000 getting women to cum from cock only is like crazy rare if youve been with more than 3 or 4 women.

 

ive never been able to make my wife cum from cock only and she says she never cum from penetration. When she mastubates its always only with her clit. I’m average length and above average girth. Ive offere her larger vibrating dildos and she’s used them because she knows l like it but shes never cum using one. Of course I often wonder if there is a certain size cock that would make her eyes roll back in her head and cum or if her anatomy just doesn’t allow it. The closest she said she ever got was actually cumming during anal but she never did. And she doesnt do anal anymore so i guess ill never find out.

 

I’ve been with more than 3-4. The only two that didn’t were one nighters. But then it was more about me. Everyone else was more of a romantic LTR and I cared for them deeply. Plus I was over my PE by then.

 

Um, I do believe that this isn't rocket science: They do it because it feels good and no matter how much stimulation they get from being fucked and... how is it that you couldn't figure this out? I remember fucking a girl and she was furiously rubbing her clit and before I could ask why, she said, "It feels incredible to rub my clitty while being fucked..." and, okay, that explains it. Is it true that some women do it because a dick in them just is never enough stimulation? Yes. Do they do it to keep their pussies wet? Not that I've ever heard a woman say and those who are prone to painful sex due to inadequate lubrication either use a lube or... they don't get screwed... and how come you didn't know this, either?

And if you really want to know, go ask a woman.

 

I was going hard and fast on a woman several ago. I had already eaten her to orgasm one time already. We were working on number two for her. I could tell she was both on the edge and nervous at the same time. Then I looked down and saw the most erotic thing ever, she was furiously rubbing her clit. So hot! She stopped for a second to lick her fingers to wet herself. The second time I asked her to let me lick them. At first she was a bit confused but went along. Then she realized it was a HUGE TURN ON for me. After we were both done and enjoying the post-coital bliss, she told me that she had been nervous about doing that. I might somehow think I wasn't satisfying for her, on the contrary. How hot is it when a partner takes control. You know a woman is really into it if she is holding onto you while rubbing herself.

 

Seriously, whatever she does to get to orgasm is great! When I am with men, I only do it as a warm up to get things flowing. I never have a problem with orgasm. Sometime it actually might happen to fast because of all the anticipation.

But sometimes when I am alone, and I am reading something erotic on this forum for instance, all I need is to rub for 30 seconds or so and that is enough.

 

Back when my wife was still having sex she was multi orgasmic, I would generally get her going by rubbing her clit during foreplay until she came. Then it was a favorite of hers to ride me while one of us rubbed her clit some more. She would have powerful orgasms that way.

 

My wife is multi-orgasmic are usually has several before I actually penetrate her. Often when we are fucking she will rub her clit while I’m fucking her. This brings her two levels of orgasm that I wish I could experience. She just keeps going deeper and deeper and deeper while we’re having sex. I love it that she can get off so well an envy that envy their ability.

 

My girl does this. She loves the full feeling and the clit stimulation at once. She will generally masturbate to orgasm while Im inside her, sometimes we cum together at the same time which is hot

 

My wife says she has done it because the man's cock was not touching her clit and she needs clitoral stimulation for an orgasm.

 

My wife never played with her clit very often. But if she could get someone to lick it, while having intercourse, they were more than welcome.

 

I always encourage my wife to finger her clit to orgasm while I am inside her. Normally we both cum together, first she cums then I cum.

 

My wife has always been self couscous about masturbating, especially in front of me. She has always had problems climaxing, 10 fold after starting on anxiety meds. I always tried to rub her clit in the rare times we fucked but she's too self conscious. When we tried the criss cross position, I would tell her too rub her clit so she could come. She just couldn't relax. Very frustrating for her but more for me. I would love to watch her really get herself off