Why doesn't anybody like me?

some people just put off bad vibes... you should try being a pothead

 

Bluedragonfly: I'm going to spread a rumor that you hide in your closet in the middle of the night and eat bucketfulls of Kentucky Fried Chicken. Hey, at least I'm up front about the horrid thing I'm going to do to you! Isn't that what friendship is all about - being honest and open about the horrid things we do to each other? If you'd like more abuse of this type, drop by and see me sometime.

 

Probably because you have dark secrets that will get you into major deep shit if they get out. What we need to do is to talk about those secrets of yours and figure out how to write a book about them and make big bucks. That's what I'm doing with mine...

 

Jeez!! I don't know what the problem is. I too, didn't have many friends but I knew why, I was quiet, non confrontational, not comfortable in crowds. As a guy I was not athletic, thin and uncoordinated. All this led to a solitary existence.
Now comes the part that is of my life that was difficult and dangerous - the only group that just took me in as me was the dope crowd. Weed, acid, uppers etc. They really were not judgmental - and I lingered there for a couple of years. I even had some of these friends in the county farm (jail) with me. It carried me through a difficult time.
Now, I realize I need to be comfortable with me. I found a soul-mate which makes it much easier - but now I decided life is too short to deal with people who judge me because of my size, or looks, or brilliance or talent. I am me - and that is just fine.

I hope that you can discover that - You are you and that is who you need to be comfortable with. You WILL find someone to share your life with at some point in time if you are patient. Be you, it is the only way you will find someone who appreciates who YOU are. And keep your eyes and your heart open. It's really hard to find someone who appreciates you when you are hiding behind a rock.

 

The thing that strikes me about you is that you are not ugly or unlikeable, but that you think you are. I do the same thing all the time. but the truth is, you have to love yourself. you have to accept what you see as flaws, you have to be okay with who you are. its only then that people can see who u really are and u will be loved for it. none of us are meant to walk alone. whoever you are, there are others like you. best wishes

 

I couldn't see...it required me to log in and I'm one of those people who avoid facebook and do not have an account there.

 

Oh - one more thing - When you are telling someone your problems, try to keep it below 100 words. More than that can make people leave like fleas off a dead dog.

 

:grouphug:

 

Have you ever thought maybe YOU might be doing something wrong?
I doubt all these people you met since you were little were all wrong.
Think about it,good luck

 

Your post was very long considering I have a very short attention span but I can relate to a lot of it. I'm still trying to figure things out myself. Sounds like we could be good friends, maybe a lot of acquired silence but I've come to enjoy that. Good luck on your journey.

 

I'm not massively liked

but that's I don't try to be. To be popular, you have to be a sycophant. To be a sycophant means not being interesting or yourself whatsoever.

And when you think about it, the people these groups 'arse kiss', they are secretly hated anyways.

 

tbh, I dont like you either... might have something to do with that fuckvfacebook link ..wtf?

 

Try learning to enjoy your own company. You may be destined to be a loner. Nothing wrong with that.