Why Doesn't He Want To Have Sex?

I hope she cucked that pussy and has herself a regular bull.

 

I absolutely get what you are saying.

I love wife with every ounce of my being.

However like you said early on in our relationship we fucked like craszy. Every day and multiple times throughout the day.

There is nothing I love more than eating her pussy. I ALWAYS put her needs and desires first.

I make sure she orgasms before I do.

Our sex life went from every day to once a week maybe.

I tried to get her to tell me her fantasies but she always says she doesn't have any and it seems as though everything is more routine than anything.

When did it change I'm not sure. It was like out of the blue it just came to a screeching halt.

I have tried everything. I blindfolded her surprised her with toys.

I tried to get her to communicate with me as far as what she is liking and what she isn't.

I have read so many books and forums on how to engage your spouse and nothing REALLY seems to work.

She use to get so soaking wet and I would love it. I would devour her pussy.

She use to be so seductive and wear sexy items now there is just the everyday things.

I asked her about it and she just gives me the same response every time..I don't like the way I look.

I tell her how sexy she is and walk by her and grab her ass. I get smile and that's about it.

I want her to open up about her fantasies and wants and desires but she never does.
I would do anything to make them happen.

I know I am so much more kinky then she is. Maybe my perversions are to much I don't know.

Your husband is so missing out and like my wife I wish she would open her eyes and see how much I want her.

That is the reason I joined this site was to see if I could get some more advice.

Please keep me posted . I'm sorry you are going through those but know you aren't alone. It REALLY sucks.

 

I been threw similar as got older wife s interest in sex has gone down hill..Came close toleaving her few times. she d all ways cry say I llbe better but never did..Now that in 60 s glad I stuck out.. My drive isn t there like use to be and she my best friend!! don t know what I d do with out her

 

Maybe she's too mature for fucking. There is a cut off line. You don't see how, but many people think it's stupid, kinda gross, and a waste of time.

It's like we have to deal with a bunch of hormonal teenagers who never grew up. It's not that great. It's not important. It really is kinda just dumb. But you can't fathom that.

 

I like porn as much as the next guy but it does serve to desensitize a person toward sex and other real people and circumstances. It's not real people. :They're paid actors and the more kinky they get the more money they make. In the real world all the women don't have a body like a high school girl or Marilyn Monroe. And every guy doesn't have a six pack and a thick 10 inch cock.