female (population) seeking male: i am looking for a nice guy i get treated bad all the time and life is so unfair oh but yea of course he has to be super ripped and buff cos otherwise itsa no no lolol. there are plenty of nice men in the world. but girls don't want to have sex with derek the computer programer from winchester.
I wonder if that 3rd pic is true? As a guy, I think said dude's prolly happy with slutty bimbo. Does not want homey girl. IRT this thread and ala le pic, people are competitive as fawk, only want what they can't have and what's not good for them, and don't want to settle for what is. It's [social] nature.
All women say they want a guy who's nice, attractive, must have a sense of humor and a job, family oriented and wants to bring them around his friends. they dont say he must make 80k a year, does what I say on demand, I can do or say whatever I want and you cant do nothin about it. He must be buff, have a big as dong, car must be nice, a 2010 and up. After years of emotional abuse, have a few babies and trying to put squares in a round peg, she's broking down for a actual nice guy. Sadly, thats how I see it.
Nice guys do exist! I know lots of them. Problem is most woman look right past them at the macho buff bad boy because they seem more exciting. To bad really, because many of the nice guys are a hell of a lot more giving and respectfull to the smart ladies that give them a chance. Goes the same way for the nice woman out there. I would not trade my nice lady for a car load of super models. There is way more to it then meets the eyes with many nice people. I have never had such an amazing lover as I do with my nice girl.
I think if you consider yourself the stereotypical "nice guy" and feel like you get walked over, you should probably do something to change your own attitude. Find a medium that feels right for you. Don't be an arrogant douchebag, but be assertive when necessary and have confidence in your abilities.
That's it and that's how it should be. Confidence and being a human turd are two different things and there's no excuse why some savage fratboy can get around better than someone with decency.
And nice guys with confidence do exist. It's been said before and I'll say it again - why don't nice GIRLS exist? It seems rare (in my experience) to find a girl without some major insecurity that negates really great things about them by letting that affect their personality.
QUOTED FOR UTTER TRUTH! there are also some of us that 'were' nice guys, that had it more or less beaten out of us by girls that cheat with the bad boys, or that guys that simply continually give us shit for it. now...pfft. I don't know wtf I am.
nah, just owning up to previous stupidity as far as females are concerned, and knowing that at this moment, I honestly don't know a damn thing.