Why dont you moan when you finger yourself -

When I've been with g/fs masturbating themselves, they've usually let out quiets 'mm's of satisfaction, but not what I could categorise as a 'moan' as such - certainly nothing like the ones you get on porn videos, where they're having the screaming ab-dabs (especially when it comes to Asian porn).

 

LOL right. :rofl:

11 days, try over 2 years ...but I'm not married. (yet) When I get to have sex again, I think I'm going to have sex for 48 hours straight and no one better disturb me. My only deterrent is that a man has to wait to re-up after orgasming!!!

 

A good lover would take care of you in other ways while waiting to re-up so to speak.:devil:

 

Oh honey you'll wear that guy out but that's part of the fun. Make sure he stays hydrated. Like Tazer said there's plenty to do while he's waiting my husband was crying uncle after 7 times in 16 hours. He's leaving again today for the weekend. He's gone almost every weekend. I'm ok with that. That whole "absence mashes the heart go fonder" thing. Maybe it's the "you need to get the hell out of my face for a few days" for us. Haha

 

I've considered that, I just have never in my life had a lover like that.

LOL, you wore him out. haha.
You know, I was just thinking today, that the perfect relationship for me would be one in which, maybe my boyfriend might be from another state or have a job that requires leave sometime -- and I would see him on about two weekends of the month -- I just like having my independence and am busy and that would work out great for me.
So, you are lucky.

 

My husband leaves me on weekends to go hang out with my dad. haha. It's not for a job or anything like that. He just goes and chills with my dad every weekend. When the weather is nice I try to go too but it sucks in the winter. He lives 70 miles away and his driveway sucks with snow and ice. I guess I never have to worry about who he's with or what he's doing. I think we both like that time away from each other. We give each other plenty of space. That's why we still love each other.

 

If it takes "effort" there's no point IMO.

As a guy who dislikes the feeling of anal stimulation, I don't "finger myself" but I'm definitely prone to moaning and grunting involuntarily while masturbating with no audience. Sometimes the moaning and grunting melts together into a weird sort of low growl/purr.

Audience? Also, not the point.

To put it another way...

Although I've personally never "screamed" I've had a few body-convulsing orgasms where my moan was so loud and intense that the moan came out roaring at the point of climax like a sort of low, deep gorilla/coyote howl. And for the record, on those occasions I had no audience.

 

Well. you're a man and I'd think women are more prone to be vocal during sex. Secondly. ....damn that turned me on thinking about you grunting and moaning, I threw in a few thrusts for mental imagery -- it was pretty hot, Captain Amazing ._.

For me, especially doggy style position, I can't help but to moan or scream.
Give it to me daddy!

 

I think vocalizations have a lot to do with communicating pleasure to your partner, so when masturbating it likely is not so important since you are the pleasurer and the pleasuree all together.
But have to admit if I hang on the edge too long, I start moaning and grunting

 

I’m male and I moan like hell when I go at it. It turns me on even more to be vocal.