Why the hell does everyone think I'm sensitive about being a virgin?

You gonna volunteer to be his first?

 

Because sex is important to a lot of people. They assume you're missing out even if it's by choice.

But blaze your own trail cowboy.

 

I'm a virgin too.

 

That's not true.

 

Who the hell wouldn't be sensitive about being a virgin in the most oversexed country on earth? Unless you lived in a cave and never came out.

On the other hand, nobody made you talk about it. How would we know if you didn't tell us?

 

:frown:


just because one sleazy girl didnt sleep with you like the way you wanted?

new flash- anyones' first time is bad.

get back out there.

 

I have a buddy who just lost his virginity this year and he's 25 years old, We used to heckle him about it occasionally but I don't think it really all that uncommon for someone to not have sex till in there 20's.

 

I had to go away to a school for 6 months, and when I came back, my wife was so tight I could barely get a finger in her. I had to stretch her back out.

She's a good wife.

But losing virginity is always so awkward. I would hate to have lost my virginity to someone that I really wanted to be serious with, because there'd be all that awkwardness and clumsiness and I wouldn't know how to make it better. And if she were a virgin, too...we might never figure out what we're supposed to be doing. I think that before the 60s, a great many people never did.

Virginity is something best gotten out of the way. Everyone should, within limits of safety, try to become as experienced as they can be so that when they do meet someone they really share something special with, their first time together can be really special and beautiful and focused on the feelings and emotions, not on the mechanics of the process and self-conscious embarrassment.

 

to answer the OP, it's easier than thinking up creative insults. also, a lot of people seem to think that the ability to manipulate women into taking off their clothes is the ultimate sign of intelligence and just being a good person in general. probably because those people don't have much else going for them.

 

she wasn't sleazy, she was a church girl, but her real man was Jesus and i didn't stand a chance.

it's not that i'm jaded from the experience, i'm not at all. I'm just the same dude after the experience as the dude i was before it, the dude who didn't get laid til he was 23. and why not? i'm a little socially retarded, i don't mean in the sense that i'm a complete doofus in social situations, i mean that i have developed VERY slowly in my social skills, and am just now getting to be where most of you arrived when you were 16 or something.

there's all kinds of handicaps

 

Oh man, you really CANNOT fight that

Jesus pwns.

 

stay away from those church girls, once you sleep with them, they permanently have your balls!

and has long as it wasnt that, im chill. i cant socialize either so i guess we're on the same page about not getting sex'd
:cheers2:

 

Usually when people are lame, and aren't smart enough to come up with something new they stick to the old bullshit...

Just like people always give me shit claiming I'm ignorant, not because of what I say, but because I could give a care less about grammar... I suck at spelling to, partially because I don't give a shit, but because people are so stuck on "oh, she has horrible spelling and grammar... she must be an idiot" that is all they see, people are ignorant, you have to over looks them.... it's usually jealousy.

I'm selfish though, and I feel just about everyone can kiss me ass... weather I like them or not, but that's just me.

Edit: I don't think it's a bad thing that you're a virgin, it just means you know what you want. :tongue:

 

becasue, virgins are sensitive

(in thier pants)

 

Epic Fail.

 

people pick up on what you project, especially insecurities.

 

but, you see, not insecure about this particular thing.

have my insecurities for damn sure, not worried about this.

 

It's because they would be insecure, or they are hoping that you are insecure, and that is all the ammo they have to use against you...

I'm sure most of them feel they are less intelligent then you are, so they are in fear to attack you that way... what else do they have?

 

if you werent insecure about it to some degree, this thread wouldnt exist.

its like you're trying to justify your actions or inactions.

I could care less if you're a virgin or if you fuck elephants it wasnt my business till you made it my business by posting this thread on a public forum.

 

Funny, I never ever thought that.

I always saw him as precocious, but not old.