Wife with another man.

I should have added "with the right people"
finding them is the hard part....

 

My second wife and I ran into that bullshit with husbands pushing their wife into something she didn't want to do and we agreed that it was some seriously fucked up shit and not what the lifestyle is supposed to be about. Last time that happened to us, the poor woman was mortified, and we had asked her, "Didn't he tell you what was supposed to take place?"

He didn't. We could tell that it was going to suck to be him the moment she got him alone. We'd had enough of the bullshit we were getting faced with.

 

Some folks have offered some good advice to prospective “ Wife sharing” couples, From couples, especially the guy, Yes, communication is imperative. For us, we talked and talked, but never discussed RULES. We didn’t have any steadfast rules. Hell, You are inviting another man to be with your gf/Fiancé/Wife. Right there you broken a major rule. What is the point of additional boundaries? Why limit Her or yourself?
One thing that some folks have commented on was their rule was no kissing. They say it is too intimate. WTH? you’re watching your partner suck and f*ck another man, but no kissing? I don’t get that part. Never have….never will. She wanted to be made love to by two men, not just f*cked, And she loved to kiss. Different strokes for different folks…

 

My husband definitely likes watching me having sex with other men. As bonus to myself I stay on there I stay on their dicks until there done ejaculating inside me

 

Sure honey , you can suck him and fuck him but don't even think about kissing him . WTF ?
Are you kidding me ?

 

Nope, not kidding. I've run into this one before and they say no kissing because... it's too intimate. Like eating her pussy then fucking her isn't intimate. I respect those who take this position but it's one that doesn't make a lot of sense to me where being intimate is concerned.

 

I've experienced this with a playmate.......
Oral-yes, role play-yes, intercourse- vaginal & anal-yes, light bondage/spanking-yes,
swallowing my cum-yes
KISSING-NO......go figure....

 

Maybe it's really just me but pumping my cum into her pussy is a hell of a lot more intimate than kissing her. My face plastered to her pussy? Intimate. Stroking her face as she swallows my cum? Intimate. Kissing her? Oh, I can't... because it's too intimate.

 

A long time ago I broached the subject with my wife. She was completely against the idea but over time because excited about it when we figured out a guy we both knew. She fucked him a couple times with my knowledge then another time or two that I didn’t know about. It was hot in the beginning but it turned out she was not prepared for the situation at all. She started to like the guy then told his wife. It was a mess. I would do it again if it were better circumstances. It was really hot and exciting but not worth losing a marriage over.