I know I've already posted to this thread but I'll add this. Keep in mind that what most people do when "cheating" is sex in some way or another. Yes, we all know it can lead to much more but often the "much more" has already begun. I'm meeting a new friend next week for shared oral. Married. In her 40's. 4 kids. Detached husband (she has had oral from him once this year and was fucked to a climax in May and not since) and very tired of being a woman for her man without reciprocation. He gets head at least once a week and she loves to suck him off because she gets excited when she pleases someone but now it's too one sided. After many conversations with him, she just wants something different. She doesn't want a divorce. She doesn't want to be seen in public with another man. She just wants something new and exciting and she wants to feel appreciated when she's giving pleasure. Even getting pleasure takes a back seat to her so long as she's appreciated. She knows it's called cheating but she sees it as stepping out to keep herself feeling like a woman and she hopes that the marriage will ultimately work out. That said, she's pretty sure he's seeing someone else so her effort at giving pleasure to him is overshadowed by someone else that he is, at least right now, more attracted to. I hope to get to know her better, socially and obviously physically too.
Twice with women who were married but I was single. Both were in very bad marriages and wanted out. Both had suffered mental abuse and neglect and one of them regularily played away with different guys while the other started out being unfaithful with me and then I heard she had gone into a lesbian relationship after divorcing her husband.
I have, more than once. There have been times it was purely physical and other where it led to something more emotional.
Yea, I would in a heartbeat. But.... probably not if I knew the husband personally, and would like to think I'd break it off if it began to develop into more than a physical thing.
Having been with several married women years ago. I often wonder if any ever confessed to their husband?