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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by tigerlily, Dec 18, 2004.

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  1. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I would rather be told I have a great personality. someone can always teach you how to be great in bed but no one can teach you how to be a decent person.
     
    lynsey, Dec 18, 2004
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  3. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    I'd rather be told that I have a good personalty because I want the person to love me, not sex. Hot sex isn't going to last forever, but if he loves my personality, then we can last.

    But luckily my man tells me both things ;)
     
    antithesis, Dec 18, 2004
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  5. missfontella

    missfontella Mama of Da Assassins

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    good in bed

    my personality grows on ya
     
    missfontella, Dec 18, 2004
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  7. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    I would have to agree with soulless. I would much rather someone compliment my personality than how i am in bed.
     
    FallenFairy, Dec 18, 2004
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  9. AutumnAuburn

    AutumnAuburn Senior Member

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    It depends on the type of relationship I am in...

    If it's a sexual relationship and I really don't want to get too deep with him, then it makes me uncomfortable when he starts talking about what a good person I am, how sweet, etc...

    But, if I am in an emotional relationship, then I like to hear that he is thinking of me in ways other than just sex.

    And, it may be arrogant, but I know I'm good in bed. Because I take it upon myself to find out what every guy I'm with likes and I go out of my way to please him. :)
     
    AutumnAuburn, Dec 18, 2004
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  11. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    It's the personality you have to wake up next to in the morning so....
     
    dhs, Dec 18, 2004
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  13. sasquatch

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    Hahaha, i get good personality all the time. I want good in bed! Seriously, personality is a more important trait. But i'm confident that i have a good personality. If someone's going to stroke my ego, it helps to compliment me on things i'm not as confident about.
     
    sasquatch, Dec 19, 2004
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  15. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Personality.
     
    Orsino2, Dec 20, 2004
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  17. thaone0715

    thaone0715 Member

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    both
     
    thaone0715, Dec 20, 2004
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  19. t-dub

    t-dub Pass me the pepper

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    i agree with you lynsey...

    but in all perspective, if someone finds anothers personality to be attractive, that attraction is deep.. very deep. and most likely even if you sucked in bed, it wouldnt really matter too much, beacause the chemistry is there. anyone can have sex... but to find the others personality attractive.. now that is happiness.
     
    t-dub, Dec 20, 2004
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  21. whispers

    whispers sweet and sour

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    women tell me,.... i am great in bed and have a great personality all the time
     
    whispers, Dec 20, 2004
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  23. Donna

    Donna ***BABUSKA***

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    great personality
     
    Donna, Dec 20, 2004
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  25. i_love_sex

    i_love_sex Member

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    Both would be nice. I've already been told i'm good in bed, so I pick personality
     
    i_love_sex, Dec 20, 2004
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  27. FreakyJoeMan

    FreakyJoeMan 100% Batshit Insane

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    I'd rather have the bed compliment, cuz I already know my personality's wikked.
     
    FreakyJoeMan, Dec 20, 2004
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